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#1 FudgieBar123

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 02:12 PM

I am back MTC!
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2. If you do not have anything nice to say, just keep it to your balls then go and f#&k yourself somewhere else;D
3. Be OPEN everyone has their own opinion and let us have good conversation


PS: I do not sell sex for living. So do not ask for my rates. This pussy is priceless baby ;)
It has been dedicated to only one.

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My Story:

I initially came here when I discovered that hubby cheated on me
(I will share next time how I was able to see all of his phone history).
Like most of you he used MTC to scout for theras and SPA.
Thankfully, my hubby was humble enough to admit his mistake and was apologetic.

Initially I was so hurt. Badly hurt. Even if he was apologetic I feel like "t**", rejected and ugly. I was angry and it was ugly.
I had to go through series of stupidity and self inflicted pain like stalking on the theras he had. I also read thru his FRs. Even some suicidal tendencies.

When I saw the pictures of the ladies I thought oh my is this even effin real?
Why do these ladies look so effin smooth, alluring, young and firm. Damn!
Mappuuuuuttiii ang kinukuha nya men.. morena ako!
Fudge their boobbiiieess are big!
Kahit ako gusto ko un lamasin haha
Everyone is rambling about getting a GFE
GFE lang ba??? I can give you wife and pornstar experience!
Lumuwa mata at puso ko sa mga pictures nila.

The one he had was a Nurupist in Makati with a Japanese a.k.a who has a really huge boobies.
She seem to be so pretty and they often refer her to a Filipina sexy star who lead the movie scorpio nights ;)

The other one he had with provided DATY, she has a name of a small car who seemed to be very sensual, friendly, sexy and charming lady. She is well experienced so nilabasan agad si hubby sa kanya. My hubby is a long playing type.. di agad linalabasan.

After seeing those girls, my confidence was at the all time low.
The way he wrote his FRs it doesnt sound like fantasy.. he wrote it with sooo much joy, truth and gratitude FUDGkE talaga!

Ang shaket beshhh!! I wanted to die, gusto ko sya mawala sa buhay ko. Pero he was soo apologetic.. sabi ko gagawin ko sa ibang guy lahat ng ginawa sa kanya ng thera nya hahahaha makaganti lang ba. But no I did not do it yet! Sayang! Joke haha I have 5pazzes sana.. kasi 5times sya nagpaspakol.

Instead of choosing to cover a mistake with another mistake, and keep on blaming him
I stepped back and asked what went wrong.


I asked him a very important question
"Why did you do it?"
He said he was sad... he was insecure. He didnt blame me.. but me being workaholic took a tool on our marriage. Him being always on his phone made him not see me.

We were like married single.
I have my life he had his life. We go home, we eat and chitchat a lil, and sex felt like a chore.
To tell you I also gained a lot. I am not body shaming but of course I know that, that affected the attraction level my hubby had for me.

In the process of contemplating I asked myself many questions like;
Do I still want him in mylife?
Am I stupid or brave to give him a chance?

I realized, I loved him. I realized that even if made a mistake he did it in the year 2017 and 2018. I discovered MTC just this 2019. All through those times, pinagsilbihan nya ako.
Totoo nga ang lalaking mas sweet ay madalas may kasalanan hehe napakasweet at mapagmahal nya nung panahon na yun. Niloloko na pala ako. Damn!
Wasak na wasak ang puso ni fudgiebar!

Instead of focusing on his mistakes, I focused on what makes me love him for almost 13yrs.
Ano yung magandang katangian ng asawa ko? Malaki titi at masarap kumain ng pepe! Chariz!! Hahahahahah pinapatawa ko lang kayo. Pero totoo yun.


After those questions, another series of questions came in;
I asked how can I win him back?
How can I make him feel very sorry for what he did?
How can I erase those memories with those girls and make him think that I am way better than those girls?

Thankfully someone invited us to attend a marriage encounter. Boy oh boy it was good.. they will teach you that sex is sacred! Love it!

I researched, watched porn so I can apply it to hubby and found about Tantric Lingam(will give details on how I did this on the next post).
I worked hard to lose weight.
I took care of myself.
I even asked him nitty gritty details on how he touched those girls and I asked him to demonstrate it on me and I will say if it is good or not hahaha my insecurities playing on me. But sexually it felt good.

I gave him sensual massage almost every night.
Before he goes to work in the morning, I asked him to either have sex or jack off for me.
When he gets home from work I do him, not just on the bed but on the couch, in the kitchen and bathroom. We checked in to motels when we want to get away from everything. Now hubby is very exhausted hehehe but I still feel horny hehe


Sex was better this time.
No
Sex, making love is greater this time.

Honestly wish it didn't happen. It was a painful experience. Good thing madaming magagandang bagay ang naitamin si Hubby sa akin para mapatawad ko sya. I once told him.. sana sinabi mo nalang sana fantasy mo yun(malay mo I could have watched him pa, baka nakipagthreesome pa kami haha). Sana mas naging open nalang sya at honest para hindi na kami parehong nasaktan.

Despite of that I believe that the real perfect marriage are the tainted ones.


Love your wife GMs.
Try loving her before you start looking somewhere else. Ask yourself if sapat ung love na binibigay nyo para makuha ung love na ineexpect nyo. Pero sa totoo lang dont expect.. love lang ng love.
Fudge lang fudge!! Hehe
Be honest, be truthful and be faithful.



Thank you for reading...
Next topic: Tantric lingam massage and Hubby's reaction
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#2 duck_tales

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 02:33 PM

Hi Fudgie,

 

I might have felt the same as your husband, where admiration from younger women makes you feel so good and boosts up your confidence. I know it's not right. I'm not justifying his actions.

Like they say, a man is only as faithful as his options. And these days, it's too easy to have options. I'm glad you are better now. Cheers!



#3 Andres_Bukid

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 02:54 PM

Welcome back Ms. Gorgeous...



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Posted 23 May 2019 - 03:28 PM

Welcome and thanks for sharing.



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Posted 23 May 2019 - 03:58 PM

Interesting topic.

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 04:29 PM

Thank you for sharing. And congrats on the best decision you made for you and your husband.



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Posted 23 May 2019 - 05:20 PM

Salute!



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Posted 23 May 2019 - 06:44 PM

Thanks for sharing

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 07:10 PM

Good read.
Welcome po.

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 07:48 PM

wow.. what a lucky guy to have you as his partner.



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Posted 23 May 2019 - 08:00 PM

Mga master, san po b meron dito aa cebu area?? Thanks

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Posted 23 May 2019 - 09:19 PM

Good topic Ms. Fudgie



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Posted 23 May 2019 - 09:42 PM

That is quite a story and I congratulate you for turning the situation around. I feel like I'm in a similar place but in the role of the husband. The pressures and distractions of life and work do certainly play a role but I'm also thinking that a fundamental mismatch of sexual needs in middle age are also there in my case. Would a frequent cuddle and kiss and at least one weekly BJ keep me from straying? It did work for years. Or has a great thing run its natural course? Or would the occasional discreet, extramarital daliance be the way to save the family bond? Some people might say that family is everything, and sex should either be switched off for the greater good - or secretly practiced somewhere else.

Anyway, you give me hope. Maybe it can still all be found under one roof.


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Posted 23 May 2019 - 10:09 PM

Exposure leads to temptation. Temptations lead to mistakes. You are on the same path. Get rid of the excess baggage. It will make you stronger, better equipped to face life.

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Posted 24 May 2019 - 02:11 AM

Ok 🤔

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Posted 24 May 2019 - 08:41 AM

A good read thanks for sharing

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Posted 24 May 2019 - 08:49 AM

Hello Fudge123. good morning.

 

 

Welcome back.

 

kaya ka pala nawala hehe  :)



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Posted 24 May 2019 - 04:11 PM

Lovely day wonderful people who embrace their sensuality!

Apologies if it took awhile before I reply.
This account is new and I can only post once a day as of the moment :)

I have been wanting to thank you all for appreciating my story.
If there are those who didnt like it or have questions about it pls do express yourself so we can have great conversation.

Again, the reason I am back in MTC is because I am highly sexual, sensual and passionate person.
For short pakiramdam ko malibog ako ng sobra and need ko ng outlet to express myself. MTC somehow is a good community because it is open. So open to the reality of the world unlike FB/INSTAGRAM. Hahaha in here we are all in the same boat.
Walang nagpapalakihan ng bangka dito. Etits lang saka boobs ang nagpapalakihan dito hahahah pinapatawa ko lang kayo!!

In here majority sa atin malibog, tama ba? Naniniwala ako na walang masama kung mahilig ka. Basta hindi ka manghahawa ng sakit at hindi mananakit ng puso. ;)



I like to share something that you people might prolly know already that girls are just as sexual as guys if motivated the right way :) Everything that I shared and will be sharing are all just my personal experiences and personal preferences please do not generalize all women, same as your cock we are all shaped in a different way hehehe


Again, thank you, thank you, thank you!
Hope all of you are getting tons of hugs, and kisses(esp down there) ;)

Note: PLEASE EXCUSE ALL THE TYPOS using my phone to write all of these. Sorry kung mahihilo kayo sa sentence construction ko hehehe


Hi Fudgie,
 
I might have felt the same as your husband, where admiration from younger women makes you feel so good and boosts up your confidence. I know it's not right. I'm not justifying his actions.
Like they say, a man is only as faithful as his options. And these days, it's too easy to have options. I'm glad you are better now. Cheers!

 


Hello Mr. Duck_Tales! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Sabi po nila men are highly visual. Iba naman talaga ang appeal ng mga 18 to 25yrs old. Damn! Miss those years! Hehe lalo na iba ung nagagawa kung naconquer mo pa sila, kung lalaki lang din ako baka nakiisa rin ako sa pagappreciate sa kanila. Actually, kahit babae ako naappreciate ko ung appeal nila.
Kaso hindi ako open sa asawa ko noon... haha natatakot sya na mahuli ko sya na tumitingin sa ibang babae kasi away nanaman. Ayun dahil sobrang higpit naghanaptuloy sya ng lugar where he can scout at dito un sa MTC hehe

Lesson learned, be my hubby's best buddy. Be someone he can feel liberating with. Be his personal MTC. :)

May gusto lang akong iclarify, what do you exactly mean sa sinabi nyo po na
"Faithfulness depends on his options", ayaw ko lang magassume na naiintindihan ko kayo.
Pero do you mean, option na mga babae sa paligid nya or option sa mga magiging desisyon nya? Kung magiging disiplinado ba sya or magpapadala sa "options" sa paligid nya?

Bilang asawa... pangarap ko na sana ako lang option nya. Pero bilang babae itong pangarap na to pinagtratrabahuhan rin. I am working hard para sana ako nalang option nya hehe :)
PRAYING na kapag may babaeng kaakit akit sa harap nya.. sana ako parin at damdamin ko piliin nya hehehe

Thank you uli!






 

That is quite a story and I congratulate you for turning the situation around. I feel like I'm in a similar place but in the role of the husband. The pressures and distractions of life and work do certainly play a role but I'm also thinking that a fundamental mismatch of sexual needs in middle age are also there in my case. Would a frequent cuddle and kiss and at least one weekly BJ keep me from straying? It did work for years. Or has a great thing run its natural course? Or would the occasional discreet, extramarital daliance be the way to save the family bond? Some people might say that family is everything, and sex should either be switched off for the greater good - or secretly practiced somewhere else.
Anyway, you give me hope. Maybe it can still all be found under one roof.

  


Hello there Mr. Annex!
I am glad that you were able to relate to my story. Yun naman din isa sa purpose ko rito is to find people I can relate with :)

Thank you for seeing my efforts in turning this situation from negative to a positive situation.
All in His grace(apologies for sounding religious).
Allow me to copy paste your msg as you have mentioned a lot of great points and these were all discussed in the marriage encounter that we attended.

"The pressures and distractions of life and work do certainly play a role but I'm also thinking that a fundamental mismatch of sexual needs in middle age are also there in my case."

-----You are not alone in that struggle. Actually, majority of people here in MTC or even in your work place might actually be experiencing the same thing.
Learning from my experiences is that, today's lifestyle seems to be designed to destroy marriages and relationships. Imagine ilang oras ginugugol mo sa trabaho kumpara sa oras na kasama mo asawa mo?
9hrs duty, plus 1 to 2hrs travel time. Paguwi mo pa pagod pa at gusto nalang magrelax thru netflix, cellphone or kung ano mang hobby mo.
Nagsasama man kayo ng asawa mo sa isang bubong pero para lang kayong flat mates hehe
Masaklap pa kung may mood swings si misis.


How did we overcome these distractions(I AM NOT SAYING that you do the same thing, just to share lang talaga)
I resigned from work. I am planning to put up my own business. If hindi kaya magresign umuwi ng maaga from work. No cellphones at home. If maglalaro ng games si hubby mga 1hr lang. Disiplina. We enjoyed talking to each other more hehe it is like rediscovering each other. We prioritized each others need over our child. Syempre hindi naman sya napapabayaan.. but we make sure that we both feel loved before attending to other things. Him and me = Us is the priority.

Sexual mismatch- I learned that this is something that has to be accepted.
Magkaiba talaga preference ng babae at lalaki.
Sabi ng pari na nagmarriage encounter sa amin
Ang lalaki kwistis putok ng putok and babae plantsang di uling kailangan painit nyahahahahah
Do you get what I mean?
This differences pinaguusapan to. Hindi to isinasaintabi. Priority to sir. Sex to. Usapang sex to mahalaga to or else sa iba to hahanapin.
Tanong ko po eh gaano kayo kaopen ng partner nyo na pagusapan ito? Hanggang saang level ang openness nyo?
Pari na mismo nagsabi na ang sex sa magasawa ay biyaya ng Dyos!!! Damn!!! Thank God hahahaha
I love sex!! Before I did love sex I was afraid of it because I was a victim of a sexual abuse when I was a kid. Pero my hubby always make sure that I feel safe when we have sex. When we were younger we didnt call it sex... we called it making love. ;)



" Would a frequent cuddle and kiss and at least one weekly BJ keep me from straying? It did work for years. Or has a great thing run its natural course? "

Bakit one lang?????? Bakit hindi araw araw na BJ????????? Bakit hindi araw araw na daty?????bakit lilimitahan??? Katawan lang dapat ang sumusuko hindi ang dila esta diwa hahahaha
Napakasarap halikan at dilaan ng titi na kilalang kilala mo. Parang may magic na alam mo kung paano ko sya pasunurin.


--------Tanong?? Nagtiwala po ba kayo sa misis nyo para aminin na gusto nyo ng BJ??? Oo at hindi nya tinanggap edi si misis kailangan maintindihan ang power ng BJ! Kailangan nya maintindihan na swerte sya at mern syang maBBJ heheh joke for short
COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY- communication is so basic but without it can break a family.
Please tell your misis in the most endearing way how much you want to be pleasured. How hot it will be if she do it because she is goddess!!kahit bola yun masarap sa panrinig un.

"Or would the occasional discreet, extramarital daliance be the way to save the family bond?"

--- if you are willing to crush your wife's heart then go. If you are over confident that she will not find out then do it at your own risk
But I tell you, God reveals everything in the right time. My husband was over confident. Thinking I will never find out. When I did I almost died. I slashed my wrisk multiple times because the betrayal is too heavy. I had more than 100 cuts and I was disoriented wanted to leave my family. When I gained my confidence I never wanted him in my life. I had a successful corporate career, I know I can leave without him... not all women can give the forgiveness I gave my husband. He was just lucky that I am the type who focused on the good of the others instead of their flaws. I am not perfect but I am capable of forgiving. Not all women are capable of sacrificing what I have sacrificed and that is PRIDE.


"Some people might say that family is everything, and sex should either be switched off for the greater good - or secretly practiced somewhere else."

I disagree sir. Before you were able to build a family you and your partner had sex.
When you had a baby that is when you call it a family.
Sex is the most beautiful thing that the Lord gave us. It all allows you to connect to each other. It allows you to build a family and your family is God's church. If you are too preoccupied with house chores and responsibilities with your children make a way.. find time to have sex with each other. Magmotel kayo... sa kotse.. sa kusina.. sa bakuran sa banyo gawan nyo ng paraan. Diskarte lang yan hahahahah

Kami ng asawa ko... nagaask sa in laws ko kung pwede iwan baby namin magdate lang kami. Pero magmot mot kami ung maraming salamin hehe


That was a great response you gave me..
I also got inspired to share, to share how we can awaken wives sexual desires. sorry kung mahaba po ang aking reply.

Truly thank you for your feedback!!! :)










Exposure leads to temptation. Temptations lead to mistakes. You are on the same path. Get rid of the excess baggage. It will make you stronger, better equipped to face life.

 

Hi Mr. Dorkvader!!

Napaisip po ako sa response nyo. You pulled my brains out of my skull! Haha
Tama po kayo. Being here in MTC is a threat.
That is the reason why I deleted my 1st acct.
There were many offers of revenge sex and hahaha si hubby lang natatanging lalaki na naexperience ko so nakakatemp talaga! But now that I am back, my purpose is clear. Just really want to have an outlet for my overflowing sexual fantasies. Just need to be able to share it. To keep my husband from getting over fatigue, di na sya makakumpleto ng tulog ampf!! hahhahaha

am hoping that while I am here I get to inspire husbands.. lalo a yung mga pwede pa salbahin ang marriages.
Regarding excess baggage sana nga nakakapayat yun eh hahaha joke! Everyday, I am doing myself to focus on what matters :) thank you for your concern and reminder.

 

Hello Fudge123. good morning.
 
 
Welcome back.
 
kaya ka pala nawala hehe  :)


Hellmarch??? Ikaw ba yan? Hahaha uu kinailangan ko magmuni muni bakit ako nasa MTC kasi ng stalk lang ako ng mga naging thera nya dati BWAHAHAHA!!
ngaun hindi na. Hope you are doing well!!







  

Thank you for sharing. And congrats on the best decision you made for you and your husband.



Thank you soo much!!! :)
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Posted 24 May 2019 - 05:39 PM

As what I have read, are girls/women are as horny as boys/men?

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Posted 24 May 2019 - 09:14 PM

Welcome back! Looking forward to reading more of your posts. I am also a husband who constantly “window shops” in the Spa forums, but fortunately na cocontrol ko pa ang urges sa akin. Lalo na pag naiisip ko yung gastos kapag nag Spa or PSP..




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