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#21 mc_darklight



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Posted 26 July 2006 - 03:19 PM

we watch movie

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Posted 26 July 2006 - 11:32 PM


i think it's safe to talk about HER and get to know HER. if she reciprocates it's a good sign.

safe date ideas i think would be:

how many brothers and sisters do you have?
what do you do for fun?
common friends
compliment her clothes
break the touch barrier (without being a perv :thumbsupsmiley: )
make her smile with a very funny joke
or a very corny joke
let her see you in your element ( do or show something you're good at without being mayabang )
learn a magic trick ( this one is reallt good )


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Posted 27 July 2006 - 09:09 AM

its all about me..
hndi ako makasingit sa dami ng tanong e..


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Posted 30 July 2006 - 03:34 PM

it depends sa ka-date ko.... may guy kase na hindi masyadong masalita eh.....usually about ourselves muna eh.... tsaka yung mga plans in the future....meron din kaseng gusto ibang topic eh, yun bang politics or business, sports, etc......

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Posted 30 July 2006 - 03:55 PM

infos and syempre im trying to observe him yung actions or gestures and expression nya..how his eyes move

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Posted 30 July 2006 - 10:23 PM

This depends ...

* 1st EB ... not much exchanges via chat, email or SMS ... then the usual questions about the person's family background, career, status, how/why they are members or the site we made initial contact with, how many they've met and how that went ... also an exchange of successful/failed encounters

* EB ... a more formalized meeting, continued from chat sessions/emails/SMS exchanges ... IF we've beCUM naughty already through those aforementioned mediums ... then just meet and go str8 to the DEED. ;-) Else, get to know more about each other ... whether there is chemistry or we click ... over coffee or a lite meal/dinner.

Edited by barenaked, 30 July 2006 - 10:28 PM.

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Posted 24 September 2006 - 05:30 AM

you try to find a common ground; see if you have common interests; find out if you'll click:
- where did you graduate?
- what movies/music/book/sports do you like?
- can you sing? do you dance? what other things can you do? breathe fire, walk on wire, eat blades?
- joke, joke, joke - gotta find out if he has a sense of humor
- favorites -- color, food, artist, pass time
- values in life


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Posted 24 September 2006 - 06:16 AM

work? though boring but she's my officemate that's how it started it all. then travel, movies and anything under the moonlight

Edited by Tokoy, 24 September 2006 - 06:16 AM.

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Posted 24 September 2006 - 09:06 AM

its all about me..
hndi ako makasingit sa dami ng tanong e..


that's exactly the point po...

to know more about you... :P

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Posted 24 September 2006 - 09:28 AM

ako kung di lang nakakahiya...ang trip na trip kong unang itanong ay..."anong Zodiac sign mo?" :upside: ...if i get the answer i like to hear...everything else will fall into place. :lol: :lol:

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Posted 24 September 2006 - 03:33 PM

what movies/music/book/sports do you like?

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Posted 24 September 2006 - 06:34 PM

I don't talk about myself.
I don't talk anything about her, either. I don't probe much.
Inaasar ko lang sya na tipong patawa. Basta kailangang tumawa lang sya.
Probing and talking about ourselves would come little by little on the second and third date.

ayos :thumbsupsmiley:

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Posted 24 September 2006 - 10:58 PM

basta bhala na yung guy kung ano gusto niya

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Posted 25 September 2006 - 06:34 AM

I tell her fortune ...

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Posted 25 September 2006 - 07:05 AM

I tell her fortune ...

..ako palm reading if the situation permits.. then i tell her bullshit truism that would apply kahit kanino..

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Posted 25 September 2006 - 10:53 AM

Kahit ano naman pwede.. avoid topics lang about current events, politics and religion. Baka maging horror bigla yan date mo kung magkaiba kayo ng views. ;)

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Posted 25 September 2006 - 07:44 PM

ung mga bagay bagay na makikita mo sa slumbuk un ang pinag uusapan namin, basically Q&A portion un about ourselves, getting to know more about each other...

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Posted 25 September 2006 - 10:08 PM

wATCHING THE SUNSET By the bay. on world hearts day

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Posted 26 September 2006 - 06:04 AM

it varies ... the girl im seeing now we started tlaking about a common book that we both read... i usually try to find their interests then i just follow up on that...

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Posted 13 February 2007 - 10:53 AM

mostly i talk more about my date such as her full resume, like n dislikefavorites etc etc

para alam muna if ur ok to continue if not y waste tym dba???

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