It all starts with drawing the line.
Sa simula palang, dapat both of you agreed in all the terms of your friends with benefits setup. However, mahirap gawin yung walang ma fa fall in love. Yan yung biggest challenge sa friends with benefits. It doesn't matter whether or not both of you agreed with the terms and conditions from the very beginning, one or both of you will have a tendency to eventually fall in love. Nangyari na sa akin yan - I lost three good friends because of that.
Pero, yung mga failures ng friends with benefits set up ko before taught me a few lessons:
1. Don't text/call that person frequently as if you care for her/him - draw the line sa barkada setup. You don't care if kumain na ng lunch or dinner yung kabarkada mo.
2. Make sure that if your friend starts a romantic conversation, you will shoot it down instantly - wag mong bigyan ng konting pagasa yung friend mo na may romantic feeling ka sa kanya kahit konti
3. As much as possible, don't go on a date na kayo lang. Or at least 90% of the time, may iba kayong kasama. This brings us back to my second point - wag paasahin yung friend na may romantic feeling ka sa kanya
Edited by mrbig86, 18 September 2019 - 01:23 PM.