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When Ur Life Is Crashing, What Wud U Do?

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#81 Grimace



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Posted 30 August 2004 - 02:58 PM

MY advice is that you should try dating other than your comfort zone, like for instance if you dig ,really nice posh guys who are posers, why not try going out with nerds or even laid back guys who got extreme interests? i met one guy here and yes, we hit it off, he's nice and sweet and he's kinda nerdy but we get along pretty well, so anyway my advice to escape from your humdrum life is to go out and date people!! if they ask you to get alid..Well you better head the door! hehehehe Good luck! :D

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Posted 06 October 2004 - 03:30 AM

i will hold still... let the worse of the situation pass.
then gather my efforts and my thoughts. work on a plan b.
psyche myself to gather the pieces and start all over again.

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Posted 12 October 2004 - 04:15 PM

go down in flames! :evil:

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Posted 30 October 2004 - 11:30 PM

as hard as it seems, break your life down and concentrate in fixing things one at a time... simplify... divide and conquer... Sometimes when things are going down for us, we panick and try to fix everything at the same time... gotta do it one by one

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Posted 31 October 2004 - 01:10 AM

ika nga.... music soothes even the savage beast...... sound trippin lang at MTC, ok na, nakakapagisip na naman ulit ng matino... :)

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Posted 31 October 2004 - 03:28 AM

Read a book, it helps if its funny or inspiring :D

Or if you're not much of a reader then:

1. Go to a bar
2. have a few drinks
3. nibble on something (mint leaf to freshen your breath)
4. listen to the music
5. if you're lucky you'll hit it off with someone (which isn't hard with the right attitude)
6. dance with that person (preferrably slow numbers so you can brush against him/her)
7. then if you're luckier you get a night of unforgettable passion :)

Enjoy life, you only get one :cool:

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Posted 31 October 2004 - 06:13 PM

what i'd do...pray pray and pray! reassess your life..kasi the things that are happening in your life is the result of your decisions. so stop ka muna..think...reflect and plan out. face all your hardships ...trust in God and things will be better. :cool:

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Posted 31 October 2004 - 10:44 PM

i let things reach a stable point. then i think of probable steps to do.
i have learned that its not good to strike when things are hot. emotions are high
and we dont think straight.

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Posted 05 December 2004 - 05:08 AM

well ... it's better to really have a good crying session ... let all the anger and emotions out ... play "angry" music like Alanis ... write whatever ur thinking on paper or in a diary ... have a stiff drink ... listen to soothing music after with a candle lit in the background

then ... after the "storm" has past ... think, learn, listen ... to you, HIM ...

"things happen for a reason" ... that you just cant explain ... you ask urself and you wonder why it has to be this way ... when you look inside you heart ... you will find the answer

Go DEEP! ;-)

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Posted 10 December 2004 - 05:47 AM

pray!!! :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley: :hypocritesmiley:

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Posted 10 December 2004 - 06:12 AM

pick up the pieces of you which have been broken and continue to live... life is not by any chance a stream of clear and calm water... it's has strong waves that can topple you off your path but you need to continue to go on until you reach the calm waves...

:cool: :mtc:

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Posted 10 December 2004 - 06:21 AM

do somethin' that would take my mind off the things that went wrong... :D

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Posted 10 December 2004 - 09:55 AM

i usually go to the Greenbelt Chapel to kneel and pray.

i don't usually ask to be freed from pain or sadness.

just being there is healing. is freedom. is bliss.

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Posted 10 December 2004 - 08:30 PM

There's no other thing to do but pray for guidance. Also, some people might find this rather unusual but i listen to this song from the 90's and somehow it gets me going.

When the spoon is hot
And the needle's sharp
And you drift away
I can hear you say
That the world in black
Is upon your back
And your body shakes
So you ditch away
And you close the shades

Don't try to do it
Don't try to k*ll your time
You might do it
Then you can't change your mind
You've got a hold on to your time
Till your break through these
Times of trouble

When you try to talk
And the words get hard
And they put you down
Don't you stay
Don't you ditch away

I saw you swinging
Swinging your mother's sword
I know you're playing but
Sometimes the rules get hard
But if somebody left you out on a ledge
If somebody pushed you over the edge
If somebody loved you and left you for dead
You got to hold on to your time till you break
Through these times of trouble

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Posted 28 December 2004 - 08:24 PM


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Posted 11 February 2005 - 01:10 PM

say a prayer...that's what i do :cool:

be it to thank God for the blessings...

be it to thank God for the trials...

i say a prayer. ..

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Posted 13 February 2005 - 01:40 PM

hang on to anything i can hold on to... good thing there are really good friends..

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Posted 14 February 2005 - 11:06 AM

yup, frriends are indeed a lot of help when you are in the bad times... :cry:

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Posted 14 February 2005 - 06:54 PM

hurt yourself over and over...

then, go with the flow of things...

find new friends...

try new things...

when you cannot take it anymore...

all of a sudden, stop...

go to a church...

pray and repent...

join a cell group...

climb a mountain...

start over again...

work hard...

attend self-improvement classes...

live in a place where nobody knows you...

*** when you feel that life is soon to be game over or the term you used 'crashing,' add some spice to it or continue to explore or go through a transition. just remember, everytime you do things good or bad... there should always be a way out... on the back of your mind (just incase!)... you can lose at times but don't die :) there are plenty of reasons to war... :grr: ...that is why christina aguilera sang "fighter" :)

Edited by lovelybabe, 14 February 2005 - 06:58 PM.

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