How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[Desensitize]

Not a biggie

[X-23]

Pag nakikipagsex sa bayarin na babae turned off ako. Takot actually.

[djsinple]

hmmm, d nmn mportante. Pro gusto ko p rin na pnag-uusapan namin.

[Liz]

Alamin nyo naman kung nagkasakit. Or kung may sakit. Dont just bang and bang. Ikakalat nyo pa with your different partners tomorrow and the day after.

 

Medical history should be discussed prior.

[naughtymonk]

Still Important. IMO Parang nagpabackground check ka ng isang applicant. Dapat you have the necessary information sa partner mo kasi di natin alam na may ginawa siyang kababalaghan sa past.

[sirace0404]

pano pag thera sya?

[AD3]

As long as thêre are no STDs both ways, sexual history should not matter that much in a relationship. The key word is "history", meaning it was all ịn the past

[rbfmale]

Not that important...

[j]

On 4/25/2021 at 12:26 AM, Liz said:

Alamin nyo naman kung nagkasakit. Or kung may sakit. Dont just bang and bang. Ikakalat nyo pa with your different partners tomorrow and the day after.

 

Medical history should be discussed prior.

pero mahirap ata i-bring up yun topic ng medical history.

konti lang aamin na nagkasakit sila

[burgerking]

bsta walang sakit and then open sya sa ganung usapan that is okay with me

 

[Tanya of Tokyo]

Mahirap ito , #staysingle muna ko

[bigbadboy_812]

Perhaps it’s important in the context of knowing the other person better. True, past relationships may give you a better understanding of the other person and how he/she would be as your partner. However when all is said and done, it all comes back to you. What is your purpose in getting together with that person? Is is short term or long term?

 

Personally, if I know that I’m only there for a short while, history, in terms of number,  really doesn’t matter. What weighs more is past medical history (ie. STDs)

But if I know I’m in for the long haul, then history takes on greater weight in the context of, as I said, getting to know the other person better. But at the end of the day, and I assume that it’s a real loving relationship,  it really shouldn’t matter how many they had in the past, as long as I’m the last.

Edited September 4, 2021 by bigbadboy_812

[id6230]

For me it is not so much as sexual history but sexually transmitted diseases.  One should not be sexually active if you are infectious.

[kano_d_great]

It is important but most of our partners won’t tell us about it. It’s up to us to see those tell-tale signs (red flags).

Edited September 6, 2021 by kano_d_great

[j]

On 9/4/2021 at 5:29 PM, bigbadboy_812 said:

Perhaps it’s important in the context of knowing the other person better. True, past relationships may give you a better understanding of the other person and how he/she would be as your partner. However when all is said and done, it all comes back to you. What is your purpose in getting together with that person? Is is short term or long term?

 

Personally, if I know that I’m only there for a short while, history, in terms of number,  really doesn’t matter. What weighs more is past medical history (ie. STDs)

But if I know I’m in for the long haul, then history takes on greater weight in the context of, as I said, getting to know the other person better. But at the end of the day, and I assume that it’s a real loving relationship,  it really shouldn’t matter how many they had in the past, as long as I’m the last.

pretty interesting opinion.

there may be some partners who do not reveal everything. aren't there people who have been together for so long but still get surprised that they did not know everything there is to know.

siguro naman after 15-20 years, lalabas na lahat ng effects ng std/sti.

[j]

On 9/4/2021 at 5:07 PM, Tanya2217_Golden said:

Mahirap ito , #staysingle muna ko

stay single na walang ka sex?

mahirap nga!

[j]

4 hours ago, kano_d_great said:

It is important but most of our partners won’t tell us about it. It’s up to us to see those tell-take signs (red flags).

good point!

lalo na pag naging defensive at nagalit pa pag nagtanong ka. definitely a red flag.

[Tanya of Tokyo]

1 hour ago, j said:

stay single na walang ka sex?

mahirap nga!

Single Sympre meron pdin aktibidades basta my cd.

iba pdin un in a relationship ka tpos 

Liiiiive ...dat’s heaven ...

 

[j]

1 hour ago, Tanya2217_Golden said:

Single Sympre meron pdin aktibidades basta my cd.

iba pdin un in a relationship ka tpos 

Liiiiive ...dat’s heaven ...

 

akala ko single at celibate. para sigurado na di kelangan intindihin ang history.

[francis_0170]

Very understanding at hindi naman ako seloso sa past nya.

[Arturoblancojr]

On 9/6/2021 at 1:35 PM, Tanya2217_Golden said:

Single Sympre meron pdin aktibidades basta my cd.

iba pdin un in a relationship ka tpos 

Liiiiive ...dat’s heaven ...

 

paanong live? live show? mukhang interesting...!

 

[yummy_yumi]

Your sexual history isn’t exactly something you want to shout about from the rooftops. Right? But sharing your sexual history with your partner can benefit your current relationship if it’s done in the right way then your relationship will run in a long run. Remember that you’re not the first people on the planet to have this conversation.😉Just make it private between the two of you. Use the conversation to communicate what you enjoy in a sexual relationship or what you’ve enjoyed from your past sexual partners. Just don't try not to go on about how great your past partners were. Your partner may compare themselves and feel inadequate.😑

 

[Chiananicole]

Sexual story. yung very understanding at yung masaya sia yung tipung makarami at hindi kami mabibitin sa isat isa,ayaw ko pgusapan Ang past' past is past na hindi muna pwedi balikan ,pero pwedi mo higitan, gusto ko pgusapan yung mgyayari samin dalawa kung ano gagawin namin sa isat isa.😋😉🙂

Edited September 8, 2021 by Chiananicole

[binsanity]

Ayos lang, wala naman magagawa na doon. 

[id6230]

There was a time when our society use to think that pag Hindi na virgin , hindi na worthy pakasalan