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Where do you find the BEST MEN?

 

You know, those Christian Grey types?

 

Handsome, Providers, READY to get married and have children.

 

I have daughters who are coming of age... and of course I want them to find / marry the BEST MEN.

 

Ideas and experiences please.

 

 

 

 

I think you misinterpret "BEST MEN". You can marry someone rich but don't always expect they'll treat you well.

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Intereating... Very descriptive and specific ang gusto mo boss a... Hindi ba para sa "daughters" 😉😉 mo yan hehehe... Peace boss.... Ang sure dyn e ung 4M. Matandang mayaman madaling mamatay... Ung pogi factor ewan ko lng. Pero kung "CG" hahaha.. Good luck. Sa spa may mga taong pogi mayaman ready to settle down na client... Mga mababa confidence level kaya na iinlove sa therapist.

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Its almost impossible, but still probable, to have the Best Men = Good Guys.

 

Most Good Guys = Successful Men are not a show-off. They tend to be simple, i.e., no jewelry, will not flash their stack of 1000 bills, drive a non fancy cars.

 

However, most of the Good Guys prefer plain looking RTWs. But if you will check the labels, they are designer brand, i.e. Ralph Lauren, Dunhill, Custom made pants by LOR's... etc.

 

Moreover, they are into good personal hygiene, clean nails, well groom, sporting a good cologne, i.e. Drakkar, Fahrenheit, Jacobs, etc...

 

Lastly, they tend to equate their intelligence and match it to the person they are talking too. Meaning if that person has not gone to a good school or even finished high school, these Good Guys will not look down on them but rather be more friendly and soft spoken.

 

These are the traits of the Good Guys.

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Its almost impossible, but still probable, to have the Best Men = Good Guys.

 

Most Good Guys = Successful Men are not a show-off. They tend to be simple, i.e., no jewelry, will not flash their stack of 1000 bills, drive a non fancy cars.

 

However, most of the Good Guys prefer plain looking RTWs. But if you will check the labels, they are designer brand, i.e. Ralph Lauren, Dunhill, Custom made pants by LOR's... etc.

 

Moreover, they are into good personal hygiene, clean nails, well groom, sporting a good cologne, i.e. Drakkar, Fahrenheit, Jacobs, etc...

 

Lastly, they tend to equate their intelligence and match it to the person they are talking too. Meaning if that person has not gone to a good school or even finished high school, these Good Guys will not look down on them but rather be more friendly and soft spoken.

 

These are the traits of the Good Guys.

 

Enroll my daughters in upscale, good schools so they have that badge of educated approval.

 

Sounds good.

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For some reason the purpose of this thread is not clear to most readers...

 

I have teenage daughters. You may have daughters too.

I want my daughters to marry well:

... for life

... to have the most children they can have

... to a loving man who will be there for her... for life.

... to a man who she can have a home / house, have yayas,

... my daughters can make money via online businesses and have time for her children as well

... to a man who is a provider... who does not need a wife's income

... and at the same time the wife is not constrained to not do business... why we have the internet today.

 

So where are these men?

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First of all, are you looking for men or boys? If boys then you can enroll your daughters in one of those prestigious universities. Especially the green or blue one. If youre looking for men then those that work in banks or corporate. Also work as a flight attendant or in casino or hotel where they can meet these men. Lastly, through matchmaking or your friends who know people like them. Just my 2 cents.

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Hi babymaker,

 

I'm not so sure about your suggestion for your daughters to become part time car show / etc. models. Most likely iba ang mentality ng guys who will spot them in these events.

 

i think the guys you are targetting value intelligence, attitude and achievements aside from good looks, so personal suggestion ko is to make sure your daughters are academically equipped and are independent women.

 

 

Some of my ideas:

 

Have my daughters become part time CAR show, GUN show, TRAVEL show, REAL ESTATE show models.

 

5 star hotel front desk?

 

Bank front desk job?


Here is a link:

 

https://m.wikihow.com/Find-Rich-Men

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Perhaps the best thing would be for you to make sure they have the best education you can give. And then use your network to introduce them to different successful people and different environments, not for companionship, but rather as exposure to the real world. That way, when the time comes, your daughters will be well-equipped to decide who the right person for each of them is. A decision that they will make by themselves, and not helped along by their father. My two cents.

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Best men doesn't equate to rich men. Best men for your daughters are men that will protect, provide and take care of them. It's better to let your daughters decide who they want to spend the rest of their lives with. As a father you are there to catch them if they fall not to pimp them to rich men (no offense). You want what's best foe your daughters, teach them to be self sufficient. Teach them to be independent. Teach them to prioritize career over early marriage. This way, kahit gago pla ang mapakasalan nilang guy, they have the option and they will not be afraid to leave him.

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For some reason the purpose of this thread is not clear to most readers...

 

I have teenage daughters. You may have daughters too.

I want my daughters to marry well:

... for life

... to have the most children they can have

... to a loving man who will be there for her... for life.

... to a man who she can have a home / house, have yayas,

... my daughters can make money via online businesses and have time for her children as well

... to a man who is a provider... who does not need a wife's income

... and at the same time the wife is not constrained to not do business... why we have the internet today.

 

So where are these men?

There are probably guys here hehe, but they are gonna be in the late 30's early forty range. Not sure if u want your daughters with gentlemen with a huge age gap.

 

Since they also should enjoy their youth.

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How should girls "enjoy their youth"?

By having fun going out with their friends from school.

 

The men that can truly provide for your daughters will be busy with work and sometimes exhausted from their job. Unless they are from a rich family where they just sit back and collect money. Also if they see others females in their age group with younger good looking guys they might wish that was them.

 

Ideally one should look for one who can be a good provider. But is that what they truly want in their hearts? From experience when women get near the 25 year mark that is when they would find the guy with everything more appealing. But the younger ones seem more attracted to the guys who are sweet talkers and have the bad boy look.

 

But who know you could have raised your daughters differently so they see the bigger picture.

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Don’t neglect your daughters’ natures. At such age espescially in those years with an “-een” suffix, your princesses do not know what they want yet, and, they most likely never will I am afriad. What you said you’re looking for is what you would want as a man for your daughters. That is great and all lest you forget that your daughters are primarily; female, budding/developing/maturing or whatever you call it at this point and lastly; is what you want for them what they want for themselves?

 

Of course, you as a man (if you are), or if you are a woman (then you should) know or have an idea of what female nature really is. It changes like the weather, one moment it’s sunny and the next there’s a torrential downpour. You have been on this earth long enough to know that.

 

Women will always be attracted to certain things, and so do men. What you should consider however is how happy and contented your daughter and possible son-in-law would be with each other once life has become stale or the wants of either party from each other have dried up? Men love idealistically, and women love with utility. This is the underlying truth of the world.

 

Would you want your grandchildren to grow up in an environment where their parents lost their love for wach other years earlier? Would you want them to be exposed to the realuty of god forbid, infidelity and/or trauma prematurely? These would affect its outlook on life negatively.

 

It’s good to have standards. But if ever there is such a man of that pedigree as you have described out there, and he comes for the heart and hand of one of your daughters, I hope you likewise raised your daughters to be the woman that is worthy of the man on whom you imposed standards.

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By having fun going out with their friends from school.

 

The men that can truly provide for your daughters will be busy with work and sometimes exhausted from their job. Unless they are from a rich family where they just sit back and collect money. Also if they see others females in their age group with younger good looking guys they might wish that was them.

 

Ideally one should look for one who can be a good provider. But is that what they truly want in their hearts? From experience when women get near the 25 year mark that is when they would find the guy with everything more appealing. But the younger ones seem more attracted to the guys who are sweet talkers and have the bad boy look.

 

But who know you could have raised your daughters differently so they see the bigger picture.

 

Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

Don’t neglect your daughters’ natures. At such age espescially in those years with an “-een” suffix, your princesses do not know what they want yet, and, they most likely never will I am afriad. What you said you’re looking for is what you would want as a man for your daughters. That is great and all lest you forget that your daughters are primarily; female, budding/developing/maturing or whatever you call it at this point and lastly; is what you want for them what they want for themselves?

 

Of course, you as a man (if you are), or if you are a woman (then you should) know or have an idea of what female nature really is. It changes like the weather, one moment it’s sunny and the next there’s a torrential downpour. You have been on this earth long enough to know that.

 

Women will always be attracted to certain things, and so do men. What you should consider however is how happy and contented your daughter and possible son-in-law would be with each other once life has become stale or the wants of either party from each other have dried up? Men love idealistically, and women love with utility. This is the underlying truth of the world.

 

Would you want your grandchildren to grow up in an environment where their parents lost their love for wach other years earlier? Would you want them to be exposed to the realuty of god forbid, infidelity and/or trauma prematurely? These would affect its outlook on life negatively.

 

It’s good to have standards. But if ever there is such a man of that pedigree as you have described out there, and he comes for the heart and hand of one of your daughters, I hope you likewise raised your daughters to be the woman that is worthy of the man on whom you imposed standards.

 

Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

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If love. Then you must know by now that you cant find love really. It finds you. If money, well there are a lot of guys with money. If quality just like what our fellow MTC said, shahid adu... Something something... Equal lang dapat. If you teach your daughter to be strong independent wise and with quality woman then chances are she will get someone thats her equal. Wag mo lng cyang sasakalin because they tend to choose the opposite of what you insist on them.

 

Kung nalilito ko, just look at how your wife and you meet. Parehas lang dn yun. Different timeline lng

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Where do you find the BEST MEN?

 

You know, those Christian Grey types?

 

Handsome, Providers, READY to get married and have children.

 

I have daughters who are coming of age... and of course I want them to find / marry the BEST MEN.

 

Ideas and experiences please.

 

 

 

 

You do not want the kind of men controlling the lives of your daugther!

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Instead of grooming them for a Christian Gray type of a man based off on looks and creating a fortunate situation (i'd like to assume you want that relationship to last in a good way also...or maybe i'm wrong and open but respectful relationship is your thing...no judgements :D) ...at any rate, groom your daughter's to have a decent career, independent, confident of her well groomed looks, well mannered and informed with a healthy but respectful sense of self-worth that does not lean heavy to men's validation (men do want to pamper women...but not care for a self-disabled baggage)...definitely compassionate to a good cause, organized and level headed to have a clear vision of how she will define her individual success and where people in her life fit in it...

 

...now this will at this point sounds way too much for one human to achieve...but if you believe in the "Alchemical Life Law of Equivalent Exchange"...then you only get in life the equivalent of what you sacrifice or exchange to put in...to have, hold and keep a Christian Gray...one must be his equal...even if luck blows your way and you now have and hold a Christian Gray...then to keep him is where you pay up the necessary price.

 

...I could also assume you may just want a decent happy life for your daughters...then they should hold a career that allows them earn enough to support themselves independently and maximize the opportunity to travel and meet different types of men within the career or life environment they wish to belong to....

 

...preparation for the future is only as good as one's ability to adapt to its ever changing landscape of events...and stay happy and contented...

 

peace!

agree.

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