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#621 wilde_imagination

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Posted 04 December 2018 - 09:37 AM

 

(Medyo off-topic, but still related)

 

Sex even between married couples must be consensual. Without consent, sex between a married couple is marital rape and a crime.

 

Offhand though, you don't know the exact circumstances of why your friend refuses her husband sex or the exact circumstances by which the husband is able to have sex with her regardless. Just from your post, it sounds more like a matter that should be brought before counseling first. If the city/municipal DSWD office has no in-house counselors, they likely have contact information on where such counseling services are available.

 

If however there is force or threat of force involved, or any form of coercion to make the wife submit to the husband's sexual advances (ie. sasaktan yung anak, hindi bibigyan ng pera para sa gastusin, etc.), then that may be a crime under the VAWC law. Your friend may want to file a complaint before the office of the City Prosecutor.

sir Johncarter44 salamat po ng marami at naliwanagan po ako



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Posted 05 December 2018 - 04:13 AM

Valid po ba mgkasal ang minister sa bahay?tia

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Posted 05 December 2018 - 02:06 PM

Valid po ba mgkasal ang minister sa bahay?tia

 

Article 8 of the Family Code says:

 

 

The marriage shall be solemnized publicly in the chambers of the judge or in open court, in the church, chapel or temple, or in the office the consul-general, consul or vice-consul, as the case may be, and not elsewhere, except in cases of marriages contracted on the point of death or in remote places in accordance with Article 29 of this Code, or where both of the parties request the solemnizing officer in writing in which case the marriage may be solemnized at a house or place designated by them in a sworn statement to that effect.

 

So for as long as there was a request made in writing to the minister, and the minister ok'd it, no problem. 



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Posted 24 December 2018 - 06:51 AM

Gud Day,

Need details on annulment.. how much po all in cost and how to get it started.. please pm me.

Thanks

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Posted 27 December 2018 - 10:48 AM

This cannot be answered quickly. 

 

Why don't you PM the lawyers here directly and ask them personally. For us to PM you is a form of solicitation which we cannot do. 

 

 

Gud Day,

Need details on annulment.. how much po all in cost and how to get it started.. please pm me.

Thanks


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Posted 16 January 2019 - 01:13 PM

What are the usual grounds for Annulment?

My now pregnant wife is emotionally and mentally unstable, I'm afraid it might get worse on her post-partum depression.

 

I've been verbally abused, there are times physical din, and emotionally manipulated.

 

If I decide to move on with my life, will that be enough?



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Posted 16 January 2019 - 03:26 PM

What are the usual grounds for Annulment?

My now pregnant wife is emotionally and mentally unstable, I'm afraid it might get worse on her post-partum depression.

 

I've been verbally abused, there are times physical din, and emotionally manipulated.

 

If I decide to move on with my life, will that be enough?

What are the usual grounds for Annulment?

 

Art. 45 of the Family Code says:

 

Art. 45. A marriage may be annulled for any of the following causes, existing at the time of the marriage:

(1) That the party in whose behalf it is sought to have the marriage annulled was eighteen years of age or over but below twenty-one, and the marriage was solemnized without the consent of the parents, guardian or person having substitute parental authority over the party, in that order, unless after attaining the age of twenty-one, such party freely cohabited with the other and both lived together as husband and wife;

(2) That either party was of unsound mind, unless such party after coming to reason, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife;

(3) That the consent of either party was obtained by fraud, unless such party afterwards, with full knowledge of the facts constituting the fraud, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife;

(4) That the consent of either party was obtained by force, intimidation or undue influence, unless the same having disappeared or ceased, such party thereafter freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife;

(5) That either party was physically incapable of consummating the marriage with the other, and such incapacity continues and appears to be incurable; or

(6) That either party was afflicted with a sexually-transmissible disease found to be serious and appears to be incurable.

 

Note that emotIonal and mental instability IS NOT EQUIVALENT TO UNSOUNDNESS OF MIND (INSANITY).

 

Baka ang kailangan mo ay hindi annulment, kundi DECLARATION OF NULLITY (legally speaking, iba ito, pero usually kasi, pag hindi abugado, lahat yan napagsasama-sama sa salitang "annulment"), sa ilalim ng Art. 36 ng Family Code:

 

Art. 36. A marriage contracted by any party who, at the time of the celebration, was psychologically incapacitated to comply with the essential marital obligations of marriage, shall likewise be void even if such incapacity becomes manifest only after its solemnization.

 

Hindi natin basta-basta masasabi kung sapat na ang mga naikwento mo para makamit mo ang iyong KALAYAAN sa pamamagitan ng Art. 36 ng Family Code. Kailangan kasing masuri ng isang eksperto (psychiatrist o psychologist) ang sitwasyon mo at mismong kayong mag-asawa. Lumapit sa isang abugado para mabigyan ka ng payong mas naaayon sa sitwasyon mo (dahil mailalahad mo ang lahat sa kanya ng personal, at mas malamang sa hindi, ay may kakilala na itong ekspertong psychiatrist o psychologist).

 

Good luck sa iyo!


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Posted 17 January 2019 - 07:31 AM

What are the usual grounds for Annulment?

 

Art. 45 of the Family Code says:

 

Art. 45. A marriage may be annulled for any of the following causes, existing at the time of the marriage:

(1) That the party in whose behalf it is sought to have the marriage annulled was eighteen years of age or over but below twenty-one, and the marriage was solemnized without the consent of the parents, guardian or person having substitute parental authority over the party, in that order, unless after attaining the age of twenty-one, such party freely cohabited with the other and both lived together as husband and wife;

(2) That either party was of unsound mind, unless such party after coming to reason, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife;

(3) That the consent of either party was obtained by fraud, unless such party afterwards, with full knowledge of the facts constituting the fraud, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife;

(4) That the consent of either party was obtained by force, intimidation or undue influence, unless the same having disappeared or ceased, such party thereafter freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife;

(5) That either party was physically incapable of consummating the marriage with the other, and such incapacity continues and appears to be incurable; or

(6) That either party was afflicted with a sexually-transmissible disease found to be serious and appears to be incurable.

 

Note that emotIonal and mental instability IS NOT EQUIVALENT TO UNSOUNDNESS OF MIND (INSANITY).

 

Baka ang kailangan mo ay hindi annulment, kundi DECLARATION OF NULLITY (legally speaking, iba ito, pero usually kasi, pag hindi abugado, lahat yan napagsasama-sama sa salitang "annulment"), sa ilalim ng Art. 36 ng Family Code:

 

Art. 36. A marriage contracted by any party who, at the time of the celebration, was psychologically incapacitated to comply with the essential marital obligations of marriage, shall likewise be void even if such incapacity becomes manifest only after its solemnization.

 

Hindi natin basta-basta masasabi kung sapat na ang mga naikwento mo para makamit mo ang iyong KALAYAAN sa pamamagitan ng Art. 36 ng Family Code. Kailangan kasing masuri ng isang eksperto (psychiatrist o psychologist) ang sitwasyon mo at mismong kayong mag-asawa. Lumapit sa isang abugado para mabigyan ka ng payong mas naaayon sa sitwasyon mo (dahil mailalahad mo ang lahat sa kanya ng personal, at mas malamang sa hindi, ay may kakilala na itong ekspertong psychiatrist o psychologist).

 

Good luck sa iyo!

 

 

Thanks a lot rocco69. Hopefully everything turns out okay during and after her postpartum.

 

Cheers!



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Posted 25 May 2019 - 11:56 PM

Pwede ko ba ipa annul yung kasal ko? I found out kasi na kasal pala sa hapon yung asawa ko bago kami ikasal madali ba yung ganitong sitwasyon pag dating sa court? Thanks

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Posted 27 May 2019 - 08:49 PM

Pwede ko ba ipa annul yung kasal ko? I found out kasi na kasal pala sa hapon yung asawa ko bago kami ikasal madali ba yung ganitong sitwasyon pag dating sa court? Thanks

Pwede.

 

Mas madali yan kesa sa "psychological incapacity". Problema mo lang ang pagpapatunay na buhay pa ang unang asawa ng asawa mo hanggang ngayon.



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Posted 28 May 2019 - 09:27 PM

Pwede.
 
Mas madali yan kesa sa "psychological incapacity". Problema mo lang ang pagpapatunay na buhay pa ang unang asawa ng asawa mo hanggang ngayon.

Buhay pa po yung hapon na inasawa nya noon pero according to her friend na annulled na din yung kasal nya sa hapon nung 2015
Pano po kaya magandang gawin dito sa sakit ng ulo ko? Hehehe hiwalay na din po kasi kami last year lng and gusto ko po talagang ipa annul yung kasal namin dahil sa pang loloko nya sa akin.

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Posted 30 May 2019 - 06:13 PM

need more help on how to recognize a foreign decree of divorce in the philippines, i already have a summary of court decision int he us authenticated in philipine embassy in california.

kindly pm me for info.

 

thanks



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Posted 03 June 2019 - 12:13 AM

Buhay pa po yung hapon na inasawa nya noon pero according to her friend na annulled na din yung kasal nya sa hapon nung 2015
Pano po kaya magandang gawin dito sa sakit ng ulo ko? Hehehe hiwalay na din po kasi kami last year lng and gusto ko po talagang ipa annul yung kasal namin dahil sa pang loloko nya sa akin.

Kailangang makakuha ka ng matibay na ebidensya na buhay pa si Hapon nung kayo ay ikinasal, at matibay na ebidensya na ang diborsyo na nakuha ni Hapon ay pagkatapos na ng inyong kasal. Kapag meron ka na nito, madali na ang pagsampa ng kaso sa hukuman para ipawalang bisa ang kasal mo.


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Posted 03 June 2019 - 02:23 AM

Kailangang makakuha ka ng matibay na ebidensya na buhay pa si Hapon nung kayo ay ikinasal, at matibay na ebidensya na ang diborsyo na nakuha ni Hapon ay pagkatapos na ng inyong kasal. Kapag meron ka na nito, madali na ang pagsampa ng kaso sa hukuman para ipawalang bisa ang kasal mo.


Ahh magaling kaya ko po nalaman na kasal sya sa hapo bago kami kinasal ay dahil din sa divorce paper na kinuha nya sa japan nung nag punta sya. Sa totoo lang kaya ko nalaman na kasal sya ay dahil sa divorce papers na naipa translate ko ito at nalaman ko nga na kasal pala sya. Tanong ko lang po ulit.. Madali po ba ang proseso nito kung ma provide ko yung lahat ng ebidensya na meron ako?

Salamat

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Posted 22 July 2019 - 02:07 PM

Pwede po ba ma annul yung kasal ko? 10 years na kami hiwalay ng asawa ko. meron na sya kinakasama sa province at meron na sila 2 anak. saka magkano po kaya estimate na magagastos? Tnx



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Posted 22 July 2019 - 04:21 PM

good day po sa lahat, salamat at may ganitong forum,

sana po may makapansin.,

 

may girlfriend po ako at  inaya nya po ako mag secret marriage po kami sa kadahilanan na siya mag aabroad, dahil mahal ko po siya nung time na iyon, pumayag po ako,  ang age ko po nun ay 20y/o, after nun secret marriage umalis na po siya ng bansa, hindi po kami nag sama sa iisang bahay, wala din po kami naging supling,.

pag dating nya po galing abroad nag sabi siya na magpapakasal siya sa ibang lalaki na taga ibang bansa ibang lahi, at nakapag pakasal naman po siya at dun na po sila nanirahan sa bansa ng pinakasalan nya., at nagka anak naman po sila.

tapos po nakapag pa kasal din po ako after two years nang kasal sa una na secret marriage,

naka pag file po ako nang annulment sa pangalawang pinakasalan ko at na may decission na din po ang court at nai file ko na din po sa dating nso na psa na po ngayon.

gusto ko po kasing mag pakasal uli, kaya lang po hindi po ako makakuha ng certificate of single dahil may kasal po ako sa una.

ano po kaya ang maipapayo ninyo sa akin... muli salamat po ng marami sa inyong forum na ito.. at marami po kayo ma guide//.. again thank you



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Posted 26 July 2019 - 10:30 AM

Question po. I been separated with my wife for almost 14 years di ko alam kung nasaan na sya wala na kaming communications simula nun. May nakapagsabi sa akin na pde ko na declare na patay na sya. Gusto ko na kase pakasalan ung 3 years kung girl friend. What can you suggest na legal para mapakasalan ko na sya. Thanks!



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Posted 27 July 2019 - 10:10 PM

Pwede po ba ma annul yung kasal ko? 10 years na kami hiwalay ng asawa ko. meron na sya kinakasama sa province at meron na sila 2 anak. saka magkano po kaya estimate na magagastos? Tnx

Pwede. Mas malamang sa hindi, ang magagamit mo na basehan ay "psychological incapacity" ng asawa mo. Depende sa abugado yung gastos, pero medyo magastos ang pagpapa-annul (mas malamang sa hindi bababa sa 200T ang gastos, baka mas tumaas pa)



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Posted 27 July 2019 - 10:20 PM

good day po sa lahat, salamat at may ganitong forum,

sana po may makapansin.,

 

may girlfriend po ako at  inaya nya po ako mag secret marriage po kami sa kadahilanan na siya mag aabroad, dahil mahal ko po siya nung time na iyon, pumayag po ako,  ang age ko po nun ay 20y/o, after nun secret marriage umalis na po siya ng bansa, hindi po kami nag sama sa iisang bahay, wala din po kami naging supling,.

pag dating nya po galing abroad nag sabi siya na magpapakasal siya sa ibang lalaki na taga ibang bansa ibang lahi, at nakapag pakasal naman po siya at dun na po sila nanirahan sa bansa ng pinakasalan nya., at nagka anak naman po sila.

tapos po nakapag pa kasal din po ako after two years nang kasal sa una na secret marriage,

naka pag file po ako nang annulment sa pangalawang pinakasalan ko at na may decission na din po ang court at nai file ko na din po sa dating nso na psa na po ngayon.

gusto ko po kasing mag pakasal uli, kaya lang po hindi po ako makakuha ng certificate of single dahil may kasal po ako sa una.

ano po kaya ang maipapayo ninyo sa akin... muli salamat po ng marami sa inyong forum na ito.. at marami po kayo ma guide//.. again thank you

ano po kaya ang maipapayo ninyo sa akin...?

 

kailangan mo rin ipa-annul yang unang kasal mo. mas malamang sa hindi, lampas 25 na ang edad mo ngayon. kung ganun nga ang sitwasyon, di mo na pwedeng gamitin yung ikaw ay 20 lang nung ikasal, at walang pahintulot ng magulang mo, at ni minsan di kayo nagsama (paso na ito, at meron ka lang apat na taon mula maging 21 para isampa ang pagpapawalang-bisa ng kasal mo sa ganung dahilan).

 

kalalabasan niyan, ang pwede mong gamitin na lang ay "psychological incapacity" ng asawa mo.

 

may posibilidad din na diniborsyo ka ng asawa mo, bago siya nagpakasal sa foreigner na yun. Kung siya ay naturalized citizen na ng bansang iyon bago ka niya diniborsyo, maswerte ka, pwede mong gamitin ang diborsyo na yun para ipawalang bisa ang kasal ninyo.

 

pero kung siya ay Pilipino pa nung diniborsyo ka niya, malas mo, di yun pwedeng gamitin para makatakas ka sa inyong kasal.

 

O may posibilidad din na hindi na siya nagdiborsyo, nagkunwari siyang single tapos nagpakasal sa foreigner na yun, Kapag ganun, malas ka pa rin,

 

Sa mga ganung pagkakataon, ang pag-asa mo na lang ay ipakita na may "psychological incapacity" yung asawa mo nang kayo ay ikinasal, para mapa-walang bisa ang kasal ninyo.


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Posted 27 July 2019 - 10:27 PM

Question po. I been separated with my wife for almost 14 years di ko alam kung nasaan na sya wala na kaming communications simula nun. May nakapagsabi sa akin na pde ko na declare na patay na sya. Gusto ko na kase pakasalan ung 3 years kung girl friend. What can you suggest na legal para mapakasalan ko na sya. Thanks!

maghain ng petition para ipawalang-bisa ang kasal mo sa dahilang ang nawawalang asawa mo ay "psychologically incapacitated."

 

hindi tutoo na patay na ang asawa mo. ikaw mismo, ALAM MO NA BUHAY ITO! tinatamad ka lang hanapin ang asawa mo! Wag mong sabihin di mo alam kung sino ang magulang niya at mga kamag-anak niya. alam mo kung saan nakatira ang magulang o di-kaya'y kapatid, pinsan, o kamag-anak ng asawa mo. alam mo ang hometown niya. kung gugustuhin mo, makakapagtanong tanong ka kung nasaan na yang magaling mong asawa! dahil dito, di ka pwede maghain ng petisyon sa korte para ideklarang patay na ito. Strikto ang korte pagdating sa ganitong petisyon... ano ang ebidensya mo na patay na ang asawa mo? ano ang ebidensya mo na nawawala ang asawa mo? hinanap mo ba siya sa pulis? sa mga kamag-anak niya? sa hometown o barangay nila? ipina diyaryo o radyo mo ba ang kanyang pagkawala? Ito ang mga klase ng tanong na itatanong sa iyo sa korte. At hindi katanggap tanggap kung SALITA MO LANG ang patunay ukol dito, kailangan magharap ka ng pulis, ng taga-barangay, ng mga kamag-anak ng asawa mo para tumestigo na hinanap nga nila ang asawa mo, pero di na ito nakita. Kung wala kang ganitong ebidensya, madidismiss lang ang petisyon mo. Sayang lang ang ibabayad mo sa abugado kung ganun. Gagastos ka na rin lang, dun ka na sa mas sigurado - psychological incapacity ng asawa mo, o ninyo pareho.


Edited by rocco69, 27 July 2019 - 10:29 PM.





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