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#1 wWw.ExTraRiCe.CuM

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Posted 19 September 2005 - 10:35 AM

Which of these two you find the hardest thing to say or admit, "I'm Sorry" or "I Love You" ?

Please tell us your thoughts about it.

#2 gottogo

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Posted 20 September 2005 - 12:53 AM

di naman mahirap bigkasin ang dalawang yan basta sa tamang tao mo lang sasabihin
madalas kasi sorry ang cnasabi natin kac madalas tayong magkamali o makasakit ng kapwa kesa sa mainlove kaya bihira ang salitang "i love you"

#3 al_simmons

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Posted 20 September 2005 - 01:30 AM

mostly for people with pride..both are hard to say... :wacko:

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Posted 20 September 2005 - 06:06 PM

i dont think that saying of those both words are difficult... dipende siguro sa tao o sa sitwasyon... but for me on my case as of now, its more easier to say SORRY rather than to say I LOVE YOU...

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Posted 21 September 2005 - 12:18 PM

"iloveyou"-the hard part i think is keeping those words for urself without letting someone know how much he/she means to you.. though for some, it's not a big deal... but i think saying those words would ease the burden :goatee:

Edited by MHY®, 21 September 2005 - 12:22 PM.


#6 wWw.ExTraRiCe.CuM

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Posted 21 September 2005 - 05:55 PM

"iloveyou"-the hard part i think is keeping those words for urself without letting someone know how much he/she means to you.. though for some, it's not a big deal... but i think saying those words would ease the burden :goatee:

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TRUE!

rejection makes some people afraid to let someone know their real feelings..

some are having difficulty saying "i love you" because they are avoiding the "i'm sorry" thing.. hehehe. :P

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Posted 07 October 2005 - 03:29 PM

Should you stay, or should you go?

Edited by Mike Chester, 08 October 2005 - 02:26 PM.


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Posted 07 October 2005 - 07:36 PM

based on my experience, it really depends. somehow you still have to assess whether he deserves another chance or not. if he's worthy of another chance...

tao langnaman taung lahat. nagkakamali...pero syempre, ask yourself may mapapala ka nga ba kung pagbibigyan mo pa sya.

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Posted 07 October 2005 - 09:24 PM

give her another chance. one last chance.

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Posted 08 October 2005 - 09:16 AM

Nope. Unless he kills or publicly denounces the woman ( or in your case, man) No.

:D

But serouisly, no. :)

Edited by Switlass, 08 October 2005 - 09:17 AM.


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Posted 08 October 2005 - 09:46 AM

let it go.

if he did it once, he can do it again.

in your case, if SHE did it once, She can do it again. :)

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Posted 08 October 2005 - 12:32 PM

tama ka dyan wyette... :)

in my case, i gave my ex 4 chances yata... in the end, di ko na talaga makayanan. i had to let go na. :( more than anything else, i love my family and i really tried to save it. pero you reach a certain point when enough is enough... you have to move on na rin... :)

you have to weigh your options siguro... is it worth saving, etc?... :(

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Posted 08 October 2005 - 02:37 PM

let go.. and ull understand.

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Posted 08 October 2005 - 02:47 PM

Just want to keep the record straight here, i opened this topic
but it doesn't mean that this is my personal case ha... some people
here have already met my partner and i don't want them to think
something else :D

I just want to know the ideas of the members on this issue.

Ok, let's move on.

My opinion is that if you know that you still love her, i'll still keep the relationship, give her the full trust again, and as much as possible, i will not dwell the issue anymore with her.

Instead, what i'm going to do is to identify the causes of why she has done that, then tingnan ko ang mga ways or ung mga dapat kong gawin para hindi na niya ulitin ulit yun.

#15 Lingerie_girL

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Posted 08 October 2005 - 06:34 PM

depende yun sa ginawa nya....
pero may possibility na bigyan ko nalang ng second chance..... B)

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Posted 09 October 2005 - 08:28 PM

depende siguro...if the relationship is worth the sacrifice bakit hindi....as long as you address the problems and rectify them para hindi na maulit...pero kung talagang wala naman pinatutunguhan yung relationship nyo then why bother....

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Posted 09 October 2005 - 08:40 PM

...because our relationship deserves another chance.

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Posted 09 October 2005 - 10:46 PM

ey,

I think no one is perfect.

I'd say I would give it another chance. There's a saying that goes like "...sometimeswe meet people due to fate, and sometimes, this people are here to make us a perfect human being."

My ex-wife cheated on me a couple of times, I gave her 2 chance...however, Fate plays an important tool of making us a better man/woman.

my lesson in life was: Attention ... why? I was away most often becoz of my work.
and maybe this is the lesson that I should learn...Give attention to the one u love.

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Posted 09 October 2005 - 11:47 PM

It's happened twice. And though we've broken up, I told her I'd wait and if she wants to, we can give it another try.

Yeah yeah, I can see the martyr looks and all that. Hahahahahaha. :) And the famous saying "if she cheats once, it probably won't happen again, but if she cheats twice, it'll probably happen a 3rd time" is being bandied about repetitively.

Well, what the hell. I love the girl. So yes, another chance. Though if we do get back together, it'll be the last (if ever she does it again).

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Posted 10 October 2005 - 01:58 AM

no never: like a song that : in the end it doesnt even matter: let go live another day there may be scars left from that relationship but its worth it.. you learned something to make you grow stronger and know what to do in a relationship:sabi nga ang isang paso pag nabasag, basag na yan kahit i-glue mo o pagdikitin ng anuman.. may lamat na yan...




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