Barenaked-NoMre Posted July 30, 2006 Share Posted July 30, 2006 (edited) This depends ... * 1st EB ... not much exchanges via chat, email or SMS ... then the usual questions about the person's family background, career, status, how/why they are members or the site we made initial contact with, how many they've met and how that went ... also an exchange of successful/failed encounters * EB ... a more formalized meeting, continued from chat sessions/emails/SMS exchanges ... IF we've beCUM naughty already through those aforementioned mediums ... then just meet and go str8 to the DEED. ;-) Else, get to know more about each other ... whether there is chemistry or we click ... over coffee or a lite meal/dinner. Edited July 30, 2006 by barenaked Quote Link to comment
chiquezee Posted September 23, 2006 Share Posted September 23, 2006 you try to find a common ground; see if you have common interests; find out if you'll click:- where did you graduate?- what movies/music/book/sports do you like?- can you sing? do you dance? what other things can you do? breathe fire, walk on wire, eat blades?- joke, joke, joke - gotta find out if he has a sense of humor- favorites -- color, food, artist, pass time- values in life Quote Link to comment
Tokoy Posted September 23, 2006 Share Posted September 23, 2006 (edited) work? though boring but she's my officemate that's how it started it all. then travel, movies and anything under the moonlight Edited September 23, 2006 by Tokoy Quote Link to comment
lost4words Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 its all about me..hndi ako makasingit sa dami ng tanong e.. that's exactly the point po... to know more about you... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 ako kung di lang nakakahiya...ang trip na trip kong unang itanong ay..."anong Zodiac sign mo?" :upside: ...if i get the answer i like to hear...everything else will fall into place. Quote Link to comment
sacred_flesh Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 what movies/music/book/sports do you like? Quote Link to comment
LoveSpell Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 I don't talk about myself.I don't talk anything about her, either. I don't probe much.Inaasar ko lang sya na tipong patawa. Basta kailangang tumawa lang sya.Probing and talking about ourselves would come little by little on the second and third date. ayos :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
Candice Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 ANYTHING UNDER THE SUN DIN AKO...basta bhala na yung guy kung ano gusto niyahehehehe Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 I tell her fortune ... Quote Link to comment
rakinishu Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 I tell her fortune ... ..ako palm reading if the situation permits.. then i tell her bullshit truism that would apply kahit kanino.. Quote Link to comment
black cat Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Kahit ano naman pwede.. avoid topics lang about current events, politics and religion. Baka maging horror bigla yan date mo kung magkaiba kayo ng views. Quote Link to comment
BEaST-RiPPed Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 ung mga bagay bagay na makikita mo sa slumbuk un ang pinag uusapan namin, basically Q&A portion un about ourselves, getting to know more about each other... Quote Link to comment
lohengrimtams Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 wATCHING THE SUNSET By the bay. on world hearts day Quote Link to comment
denimhead Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 it varies ... the girl im seeing now we started tlaking about a common book that we both read... i usually try to find their interests then i just follow up on that... Quote Link to comment
happy rider Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 mostly i talk more about my date such as her full resume, like n dislikefavorites etc etc para alam muna if ur ok to continue if not y waste tym dba??? http://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s293/metroscandy/ShowLetter.gif Quote Link to comment
King`Of`Klubbs Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 ayos :thumbsupsmiley: So how about a date, Ms. LoveSpell? O baka naman matrona ka na ha?! Mamaya pag tinanong na kita ng mga bagay tungkol sa 'yo, makwento mo sa 'kin yung mga kinu-kwento ng lola ko. 10101010101010101010 Unlike some of the posts above, I shy away from asking "interview questions." I have a different way of screening the "potentials." Asking interview questions is, to be honest, boring not just for her but for me as well. And if I'm asked an interview question, sasagutin ko ng "Are you going to hire me, ma'am? May I state the compensation & benefits package that I want?" There's a logic and science behind this. AND rather than being the one being "screened" by the girl, I'm the one who assesses her. (which reminds me, this is also a good way to start the date. tell her that you are there to see if she'll fit the job. do this in a humorous manner.) Pag nakita kong hindi kami click, I'll just say, "Teka, kailangan ko na pa lang umuwi. Kailangan ko kasing paliguan tska sipilyuhan yung pusa ko eh." Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 Parang gusto ko yatang pag usapan at itanong kung-buhay pa ba nanay mo?-mahilig ka ba sa aso o sa pusa?-may poon ba kayo sa bahay? :upside: Quote Link to comment
bluegreen717 Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 Politics and economics. Differing views can lead to friction, which can lead to sparks, which can lead to attraction. Quote Link to comment
Manticore Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 The most memorable first date experience I had was with my recent ex-GF (5 years running. heheheh.) I had no idea how to kick-off the conversation, so I came up with this game (which, in retrospect, was probably what made her think I was full of surprises, something she never thought I was capable of, based on her impression of me at work.) The rules were pretty simple; she would be entitled to ask me any hypothetical question she wouldn't dare ask a boyfriend, then I would answer her as truthfully as possible. I'd get my turn, of course. heheheh. It was a great way to break the ice and a real eye-opener, as well. Needless to say, we didn't feel the need to keep any more secrets after that. Quote Link to comment
blow_gobi Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 My first date alone w/ her after several group dates: we talked about other barkadas, where we'd like to go, things we'd like to do... parang continuation lang. It was a successful date. My very first date w/o previous barakada dates, yung tipong casual meetings before then I asked for a date: we talked about the movie we watched, what I thought of her before (to confirm if my impression of her was right), things that we'd probably both enjoy doing together (dining, art films, etc.), plans for next possible date... Also successful My blind dates? Mostly disastrous... Quote Link to comment
Yama Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 Do's- her passion- her hobbies- her dreams- her opinions- open-ended questions- SELF-DISCLOSURE- cube game (my favorite rappport builder)- boyfriend destroyer (if shes in a relationship) Dont's- weather- work- school- health- politics- death- problems- past relationships- over self-disclosure- yes/no questions- boring facts Get that Vibe!! Quote Link to comment
Guest bleeding_angel Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 anything under the sun EXCEPT for really personal stuff like past relationships or family problems... Quote Link to comment
sunking Posted May 8, 2007 Share Posted May 8, 2007 anything under the sun EXCEPT for really personal stuff like past relationships or family problems... Hear hear. Never talk about past relationships. That topic is a looooong way off in any relationship. Quote Link to comment
czashi Posted May 21, 2007 Share Posted May 21, 2007 anything.. just as long you get to know the person better with every conversation you make.. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted June 27, 2007 Share Posted June 27, 2007 just about anything....his interests and yours....recent and past events about family, lovelife (ive never dated anyone who wasnt interested in this, even at the first date), work and all.....therein lies the "wavelength" thing....kung talagang click kayo, the talk could go on forever Quote Link to comment
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