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Is disclosure of your partner/s sexual history a deal breaker? Is this something you consider before

 

hooking up? How much information do you need and how much do you get?

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@ topic pwede cguro pero kailangan malalim na ang pag uunawaan nyo sa isat isa.. saka dapat maging mas malawak na ang pag iisip nyo.. and if ever na malaman nyo kung ilan yung naging partner nya dapat cguro wag na pangalanan kasi hindi maiiwasan ang mga insecurities and comparisons..

 

 

Acceptance is good but reputation is also important. What if yun gf mo nalaman mo nagpatira pala dati sa buong baranggay basketball team including coach and ball boy?

i think sir malaki yung chance na malalaman mo agad kung may reputation sya sa simula pa lang nung nag babalak ka pa lng mangligaw sa kanya.. kasi diba bago tyo manilgaw nag scout/nag research tyo sa mga target natin so malaki ang chance na makakaamoy ka kaagad kung may reputation sya na ganun.. just my two cents worth
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By learning your partner's past you can then see tendencies, weaknesses and strengths that you can work on or help you decide whether to hit it or pass.

Ignoring such facts is a recipe for trouble later on. If you cannot accept your partner's past, then it would be best to let them be and not get emotionally involved.

 

The most important reason is to protect your health. Philippines is currently the country with the highest H.I.V. infection rate. Remember, people with H.I.V. don't always look sick, most don't even know they have it until several months have passed. Condoms are no guarantee that you are protected.

Be wise and put the ignorance on hold.

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also...

 

isnt history usually used to determine patterns or tendencies?

 

 

This will earn a varying degree of answers...

 

Generally, the topic is clearly about trust particularly between the two of you or partners. And when we say trust, it's a universal thing. In fact, it applies not only in the context of any romantic relationship but also within a group of people or any service-oriented organization where basically its productivity depends on the basic rule -- honesty.

 

But let's just focus more on the former. Trust is a crucial issue in which each partner has to assure the other partner by telling his/her past especially if it has something to do with sexual involvement regardless of the degree it had been. However, cliché as this may sound different strokes for different folks. Some tend to shrug this off while the rest are so conventional.

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on the contrary though, FDL, I'd like to point out that you've mentioned two different aspects: trust and honesty.

 

If we're going to lean heavily on matters of trust between both parties, we could say that history shouldn't matter, as long as both parties have been honest with putting on full disclosure about the said matter.

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on the contrary though, FDL, I'd like to point out that you've mentioned two different aspects: trust and honesty.

 

If we're going to lean heavily on matters of trust between both parties, we could say that history shouldn't matter, as long as both parties have been honest with putting on full disclosure about the said matter.

Like I said earlier, different strokes for different folks/ people in which conviction or belief also matters. ;) Edited by FleurDeLune
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Hindi natin masasabi ang tendency ng babae on her history. Classmate ko nun college, may pagka sex maniac kahit sino kumaladkad sumasama. Pero fast forward 7yrs after, ang tino tino pati asawa formal din. I wonder if he knows her past. Pero sabi nga lahat nagbabago. Kailangan lang mahal mo isang tao para matanggap mo.

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By learning your partner's past you can then see tendencies, weaknesses and strengths that you can work on or help you decide whether to hit it or pass.

Ignoring such facts is a recipe for trouble later on. If you cannot accept your partner's past, then it would be best to let them be and not get emotionally involved.

 

The most important reason is to protect your health. Philippines is currently the country with the highest H.I.V. infection rate. Remember, people with H.I.V. don't always look sick, most don't even know they have it until several months have passed. Condoms are no guarantee that you are protected.

 

Be wise and put the ignorance on hold.

that's very pragmatic!

good yan!

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Like I said earlier, different strokes for different folks/ people in which conviction or belief also matters. ;)

 

on the contrary though, FDL, I'd like to point out that you've mentioned two different aspects: trust and honesty.

 

If we're going to lean heavily on matters of trust between both parties, we could say that history shouldn't matter, as long as both parties have been honest with putting on full disclosure about the said matter.

 

parang chicken or the egg yan?

 

do you have to show honesty to earn trust? or do you trust that the other person is honest?

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personally I don't care for the past... the past is history... yung present at future ang madetermine kung saan tutungo yung relationship nyo... medyo malayong analogy.... si jackie chan ay isang porn star bago sumikat... ngayon dahil ba alam mo yun e nde mo na maappreciate yung later movies nya?

 

@topic... most of the post e about sa sexual intensity o dami nang partners... how about kung me scandal?

 

nung college days ko... meron sikat na scandal sa school namin.... para dun sa lalaki involve ayos dahil sumikat sya sa school at parang naging the man's man sya.... kaso dun sa girl... kinailangan syang umuwi nang provice at nag pagbago nang gupit nang buhok dahil everytime na makakita sa kanya.... yung scandal ang laging bungad

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By learning your partner's past you can then see tendencies, weaknesses and strengths that you can work on or help you decide whether to hit it or pass.

Ignoring such facts is a recipe for trouble later on. If you cannot accept your partner's past, then it would be best to let them be and not get emotionally involved.

 

The most important reason is to protect your health. Philippines is currently the country with the highest H.I.V. infection rate. Remember, people with H.I.V. don't always look sick, most don't even know they have it until several months have passed. Condoms are no guarantee that you are protected.

 

Be wise and put the ignorance on hold.

 

 

that's very pragmatic!

good yan!

very well said.

 

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Before when i was seeing someone seriously, I like to listen to my partner's stories about his sex encounters because i think its good material to write. I don't get jealous listening to past experiences, it does make me horny, especially i have a vibrator between my legs and rubbing my clit with it while he tells me erotic stories...

 

I usually ask this question..

 

 

" Talk Sexy to me...Tell me how big are her tits and how you got her off..." Then i just get so horny..i get wet...i always get wet just the though of it and just by my breast as i play with my nipples and the vibrator in my pussy..

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