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Sex Or Love? What Makes Relationship Work?


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  • 2 weeks later...

What makes a relationship work is through compromise. Both parties should be willing to compromise. Respect is also an important component of a relationship, without this, any relationship is doomed to fail. Love will teach you how to compromise, and sex is just the outcome of a successful relationship.

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Clear cut ROLES.

 

Red Pill mindset:

 

Husband Provider, Leader Role - Masculine

Wife(s) Domestic Comfort, Sex, Bear Children Role - Feminine

 

No role reversal, no equality... these do not work.

Do not expect monogamy from the MALE.

No MALE is truly absolutely monogamous... alam nyo na ito, nandito tayo sa MTC.

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Attraction, Respect, at Trust. Essential elements ng love.

 

Pagtingin, respeto, at tiwala. Ang pinakamahalangang mga elemento ng pag-ibig.

 

Tanggalin mo isa sa tatlo, iba na relasyon niyo.

 

Ang pagmamahal ay nakasalalay sa mga kondisyon, kaya di ako nainiwala sa unconditional love. Ang unconditional love ay para sa magpapamilya lamang na hindi dulot ng kasal tulad ng magulang-anak. Pero para sa partner/asawa/syota mo, nakasalalay ang pagmamahal nila sayo habang kumpleto yang tatlo.

 

Attraction/pagtingin (kasama ang totnak dito) kung mawala ito maiiwan respeto at tiwala nalang. Para na kayong magkaibigan nun.

Respeto kung mawala matitira attraction at tiwala nalang. Para kayong fubu/fwb nalang niyan.

Kung mawala ang tiwala matitira attraction at respeto. Starcrossed lovers na kayo niyan, di na kayo pwedeng magsama kasi habambuhay niyong mamanmanan ang galaw ng bawat isa.

 

So hindi sex or love dapat ang tanong. Kasi ang sex ay elemento ng love. Tignan niyo dapat kung nandyan yung tatlo.

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Other than love, it's living up to your decision to be with that person.

I agree. Love is more than just a feeling, it is an action that you have to choose to do every single day. This sustains the relationship in the long run.

 

Sex, on the other hand, spices things up and keeps the relationship fun and engaging.

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  • 3 weeks later...

Both Love and Sex are required to make a relationship work, specially if you are young... for older people who cannot have sex anymore, they would settle for love... But the sad part in todays world is you will never really know if a person Loves you, Love is easier to fake... while in sex, its easier to determine if a person is faking orgasm or if she really is into having sex with you... so many young people today just go for it, if they are sexually compatible and physically attracted to each other they try to make things work... unlike in Love, if you are not compatible or have the same feelings for each other, sex becomes irritating specially if one is not into the other person anymore.

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  • 2 weeks later...

Understanding and respect kahit nakilala mo sya bilang thera mo noon, hindi basehan yun para pagsabihan mo sya ng masasakit na salita like lahat ng lalaki gustu nyang tikman.. Kung nakaya nyang baguhin ang gawain nya noon, bakit di mo magawang tanggapin ang buong pagkataon nya ngayun ? Kung wala kang respeto sa taong nasa mababang estado ng buhay, wala kang karapantan para makaranas ng masarap na pagmamahal na inaasam mo ..

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