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How can a cheater, stop cheating?

 

I know a lot have done it. But I think a lot more are having a hard time doing it. The question refers to how to stop cheating before things seriously get out of hand.

 

How can you dismiss the thought of a kiss, a smooch, a conversation with a potential lead.

The word cheating somehow doesn't describe the hurt that will result from it. Betrayal is a more appropriate term.

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If you can't tie yourself down to one woman, then being in a relationship (married, partnered, couple) is NOT for you. If you try to force it, you will just end up hurting people. Cheaters will not stop cheating, because they shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with. There is nothing wrong in being single and just have casual encounters, fubu or whatever you want to call it. This way you make yourself contented and you avoid hurting people that aren't wired the same as you.

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The temporary thrill from cheating is in the same part of the brain as the high you get from drugs. It's an addiction. Requires strong will determination and discipine of the mind and body to quit. Usually starts with a thought of temptation or the environment around you. Unless you cut those out, you will probably cheat again.

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You can't. Nasa sa kanila kung ititigil na nila ang pagiging babaero nila.

 

It's a cycle, kung nagawa nya sa una, di malabong gawin nya sa pangalawa hanggang sa namatay na lang sya di pa sya tapos magbilang kung ilang beses na syang nangaliwa at nagloko.

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People don't change. You just suppress your true self para makipag compromise, etc pero pag na corner ka, that true side of yours will claw its way back out. Sa iba parang coping mechanism na. E.g. papasok sa isang seryosong relationship. Sa iba marriage pa. Magkaka problema, mag aaway, may makikitang pagkukulang sa partner, di alam panu gaganti. So gagawin nyang piece ung current partner sa game with another person, na di rin alam na they're being cheated on as well.

 

If you're a perennial cheater, then that's your true self. Wag na itago. Embrace it. Just know that there will always be consequences to your decisions.

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