Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

11 hours ago, plug said:

September 2019 first time I met her nagustuhan ko siya. I want her company and I want someone like her besides me. Thinking she can make it iniwan niya ang spa.

Dumating ang pandemic naging limitado ang aming pagkikita. Now nearing three years sana ay hindi na siya maghangad bumalik sa spa. Sa kanyang salita "ayoko ng bumalik at magtrabaho muli sa spa na di ko talagang gusto".

Mahirap marahil paniwalaan dahil may ilan ng bumalik gayon may sinasabing kakayahan na mabuhay ng maayos. Mayroon nga nakapagpundar ng ariarian at nakapag tayo ng kumikitang negosyo. Pero bakit bumabalik sa masasabing mababang uri ng trabaho?

Para kaya may mag fall?

Mostly its money. For others they get used to the "life" and are bored without it. A few are nymphos.  

[courtesanhunter]

iba pa ang attraction sa pagmamahal. ganun din pagdating sa L. kailangan munang makilala ng husto ang isang babae bago masabi na totoo na ang pagmamahal mo sa kanya. kailangang magingat lalo na sa loob ng industriya dahil iba iba ang motibo ng bawat tao. nakakatakot magmahal ng babaeng pera lang ang habol. madalas kasama sa package deal ang pamilya nila. minsan palihim na kasama sa package deal ang totoong kasintahan nila. and then meron din na maluho lang talaga ang pamumuhay kaya naghahabol ng easy money.

[handsomebob]

3 hours ago, courtesanhunter said:

iba pa ang attraction sa pagmamahal. ganun din pagdating sa L. kailangan munang makilala ng husto ang isang babae bago masabi na totoo na ang pagmamahal mo sa kanya. kailangang magingat lalo na sa loob ng industriya dahil iba iba ang motibo ng bawat tao. nakakatakot magmahal ng babaeng pera lang ang habol. madalas kasama sa package deal ang pamilya nila. minsan palihim na kasama sa package deal ang totoong kasintahan nila. and then meron din na maluho lang talaga ang pamumuhay kaya naghahabol ng easy money.

buti sana kung anak lang, pero kung buong pamilya..masyado na mabigat!!

[PROJECTCADMUS]

On 6/6/2022 at 11:06 AM, handsomebob said:

buti sana kung anak lang, pero kung buong pamilya..masyado na mabigat!!

dapat man unli pocket ka hahaha

[Bonked]

hindi naman mawawala ang chance na mangyayari talaga ito, lalo na pag madalas kayo nag kikita. tapos usapang no nonsense and about personal/private lives na. dun mo malalaman na kahit ano ang kalagayan nya sa buhay (financially challenged, single mom, saving to start a business, etc)... ma iinlove ka din.

ganyan talaga buhay pag concerned ka na sa isang tao... sooner or later baka ma fall ka na sa kanya.

yun lang... i hope that the feeling would be mutual din.

[kevin12684]

there's this one thera na lagi kong binabalikan lately. when i think of getting a different thera from a different spa, laging pumapasok sa isip ko "bakit di nalang si new favorite"?

im not falling in love with her but im so attracted to her cause she has so much resemblance to my crush na bigo ako nung sinubukan ko siyang ligawan. in a way, my time with this thera is like my alternate reality kung sakali nagkatuluyan ako with my crush. hay...

frustrating in a way cause ang layo ng biyahe ko para mapuntahan yung spa tapos medyo pricey etong thera to be a regular bisyo. sometimes, i wish i would wake up to the reality na useless fantasy lang eto and need ko na magmove on. but at the same time, kapag nakikita ko picture niya, how can i resist her? ugh

(sorry kung malabo. just thinking out loud and gusto ko lang maglabas ng feelings ko)

[DaviDxD]

Sa aking personal experience, I fell in love sa thera dahil sa lagi ko siya nakukuha it’s pre-pandemic pa. Although alam ko may BF at anak na siya pero yung GFE talaga niya ang nakaantig sakin, pero dahil alam niya na gusto ko siya she take advantage of it. Sadly lagi siya nahiram ng pera na lagi sinasabi na babayaran niya agad (pero never siya nagbayad) ako naman para ma please ko siya lagi ko siya pinapahiram, dumating sa point na lagi na siya nanghiram kahit di pa bayad yung nahiram niya. Totoo nga siguro minsan bulag ang pag ibig di mo napapansin na ginagamit ka nalang niya, pero nung one time nanghiram siya at di na ako nakapagbigay kasi may problem ako nung time na yun, she become cold at ayaw na ko kausapin, dun ko nalang napagtanto na ganun she using me. Siguro lesson learned nalang sakin to, disclaimer di naman siguro lahat ganun ang thera, malas lang talaga ko nang napuntahan hehe. I just share my experience. Pag naaalala ko to natatawa at naiinis ako sa sarili ko, pero grabe kasi yung tama niya sakin nung mga panahon na yun. 

Edited June 7, 2022 by DaviDxD

[handsomebob]

7 hours ago, DaviDxD said:

Sa aking personal experience, I fell in love sa thera dahil sa lagi ko siya nakukuha it’s pre-pandemic pa. Although alam ko may BF at anak na siya pero yung GFE talaga niya ang nakaantig sakin, pero dahil alam niya na gusto ko siya she take advantage of it. Sadly lagi siya nahiram ng pera na lagi sinasabi na babayaran niya agad (pero never siya nagbayad) ako naman para ma please ko siya lagi ko siya pinapahiram, dumating sa point na lagi na siya nanghiram kahit di pa bayad yung nahiram niya. Totoo nga siguro minsan bulag ang pag ibig di mo napapansin na ginagamit ka nalang niya, pero nung one time nanghiram siya at di na ako nakapagbigay kasi may problem ako nung time na yun, she become cold at ayaw na ko kausapin, dun ko nalang napagtanto na ganun she using me. Siguro lesson learned nalang sakin to, disclaimer di naman siguro lahat ganun ang thera, malas lang talaga ko nang napuntahan hehe. I just share my experience. Pag naaalala ko to natatawa at naiinis ako sa sarili ko, pero grabe kasi yung tama niya sakin nung mga panahon na yun. 

truly bro, the hardest lesson learned are sometimes the most painful...

I am glad you got out of that shit....

but to me, if ever there's a perfect lady for me, I found her kaso it will never work out sa isip ko and it is probably best na THERA - GUEST relationship na lang..

[plug]

On 6/6/2022 at 12:12 AM, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

Mostly its money. For others they get used to the "life" and are bored without it. A few are nymphos.  

I highlighted the above which I think are the main reasons of a thera's return. Sa first appearance nga as newbies well described sila sa FR on cheaper sex pa. Being popular na they can put their own price on their return. Even promoted to MGT or GT pang taas ng rates. Some even claim to be stable in life and yet still prefer to be back as theras.

Marahil better feeling kung iba ibang lalaki ang ka sex nila just as tayong mga lalaki iba iba naman babae o theras. Sabi nga nung isang mpa on her fourth return ata "saan ka pa may sex na may pera pa". She was number one mpa on her appearance na pinilahan, nagka sponsor even partners. 

Kaya yung aking ex thera sana masanay na lang siya sa aking company and love. Kung sabagay useless din kung bumalik sa spa kung wala naman din papatol para mag fall kahit sabihin dating MGT pa siya.

[Howdy Doody]

15 hours ago, DaviDxD said:

Sa aking personal experience, I fell in love sa thera dahil sa lagi ko siya nakukuha it’s pre-pandemic pa. Although alam ko may BF at anak na siya pero yung GFE talaga niya ang nakaantig sakin, pero dahil alam niya na gusto ko siya she take advantage of it. Sadly lagi siya nahiram ng pera na lagi sinasabi na babayaran niya agad (pero never siya nagbayad) ako naman para ma please ko siya lagi ko siya pinapahiram, dumating sa point na lagi na siya nanghiram kahit di pa bayad yung nahiram niya. Totoo nga siguro minsan bulag ang pag ibig di mo napapansin na ginagamit ka nalang niya, pero nung one time nanghiram siya at di na ako nakapagbigay kasi may problem ako nung time na yun, she become cold at ayaw na ko kausapin, dun ko nalang napagtanto na ganun she using me. Siguro lesson learned nalang sakin to, disclaimer di naman siguro lahat ganun ang thera, malas lang talaga ko nang napuntahan hehe. I just share my experience. Pag naaalala ko to natatawa at naiinis ako sa sarili ko, pero grabe kasi yung tama niya sakin nung mga panahon na yun. 

I first met her when she was a thera, when the pandemic struck she found work as a call center agent. She was trying to make ends meet. First, she borrowed money to start a small rice retailing business to augment her income. Unfortunately, the stress of life had caught up with her and eventually she got sick and needed medical care. She again approached me for help. It was during this period that we became closer than a thera-guest relationship. Since, it was during pandemic, it was an opportune time for us to be together. We became closer during this time. Since, she was almost turning around her life and starting a new path, I thought that I could help her change her status in life. We planned a business for her to run and invest in skill training.  When things start to normalize, I sense that she was slowly drifting away from our plans and relationship. Then one day, without any word or advice she suddenly ghosted me. Upto now, I don't really know what happened. Whether she found a better option or found our relationship futile. There's still no closure. For me, it's another phase in my life and I just learn just to move on.

[Richelle]

22 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

I first met her when she was a thera, when the pandemic struck she found work as a call center agent. She was trying to make ends meet. First, she borrowed money to start a small rice retailing business to augment her income. Unfortunately, the stress of life had caught up with her and eventually she got sick and needed medical care. She again approached me for help. It was during this period that we became closer than a thera-guest relationship. Since, it was during pandemic, it was an opportune time for us to be together. We became closer during this time. Since, she was almost turning around her life and starting a new path, I thought that I could help her change her status in life. We planned a business for her to run and invest in skill training.  When things start to normalize, I sense that she was slowly drifting away from our plans and relationship. Then one day, without any word or advice she suddenly ghosted me. Upto now, I don't really know what happened. Whether she found a better option or found our relationship futile. There's still no closure. For me, it's another phase in my life and I just learn just to move on.

Ang sakit naman nyan sir. Painful lesson indeed.  Buti naman naka move on na rin sir. 

[handsomebob]

On 6/8/2022 at 3:02 PM, Howdy Doody said:

I first met her when she was a thera, when the pandemic struck she found work as a call center agent. She was trying to make ends meet. First, she borrowed money to start a small rice retailing business to augment her income. Unfortunately, the stress of life had caught up with her and eventually she got sick and needed medical care. She again approached me for help. It was during this period that we became closer than a thera-guest relationship. Since, it was during pandemic, it was an opportune time for us to be together. We became closer during this time. Since, she was almost turning around her life and starting a new path, I thought that I could help her change her status in life. We planned a business for her to run and invest in skill training.  When things start to normalize, I sense that she was slowly drifting away from our plans and relationship. Then one day, without any word or advice she suddenly ghosted me. Upto now, I don't really know what happened. Whether she found a better option or found our relationship futile. There's still no closure. For me, it's another phase in my life and I just learn just to move on.

ginamit ka lang niya sir, as much as painful that may seem, I think that is all there is to it...

if she truly loved you, she would have explained and had the courage and the LOVE to admit that she wants to move on from you, I am sure di mo naman siya hahabulin if she wants to be alone....

I guess if may karma, siya ang makakarma sir, hindi ikaw...

[BrandonV]

It's nice to fall for a therapist because she is very honest. Her experience with many different guys has made her stronger than most other girls. So if you treat a therapist very well, she will surely be totally loyal to you. And sex life is a great bonus too.

[handsomebob]

3 hours ago, BrandonV said:

It's nice to fall for a therapist because she is very honest. Her experience with many different guys has made her stronger than most other girls. So if you treat a therapist very well, she will surely be totally loyal to you. And sex life is a great bonus too.

I say depende pa din sa ugali ng therapist bro, even if you treat her very well kung masama naman talaga ugali ng thera, gagamitin ka lang but not all and there are really some na if you treat them well, they will treat you even better but kokonti lang sila dito sadly...

 

[PROJECTCADMUS]

6 hours ago, BrandonV said:

It's nice to fall for a therapist because she is very honest. Her experience with many different guys has made her stronger than most other girls. So if you treat a therapist very well, she will surely be totally loyal to you. And sex life is a great bonus too.

1 percent lang honest na thera. assume ko mga bago palang yun kc inde pa nila alam pasikot sikot but years later magiging experience na + kapag naloko pa sila ni GM expect mo na na magiging hardened yang puso yan. trust issue will arise 100 percent.

[Howdy Doody]

10 hours ago, BrandonV said:

It's nice to fall for a therapist because she is very honest. Her experience with many different guys has made her stronger than most other girls. So if you treat a therapist very well, she will surely be totally loyal to you. And sex life is a great bonus too.

Most girls who survive and succeed in this profession are hardened by their experience, some suffers trust, mental, physiological, psychological and social issues. In order to cope, they develop split or multi personalities. My advice is just to avoid any long term relationships with them since they are totally different breed, very callous and sociopaths.

[TonyLeung]

14 minutes ago, Howdy Doody said:

Most girls who survive and succeed in this profession are hardened by their experience, some suffers trust, mental, physiological, psychological and social issues. In order to cope, they develop split or multi personalities. My advice is just to avoid any long term relationships with them since they are totally different breed, very callous and sociopaths.

Kawawa naman si Marnel Tuble aka @KID FIGHTER. He has all the symptoms of the broken head. He he he he.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

I have rarely met a thera that I wanted to know more than physically. Oftentimes, its really the vast difference in background and experience that kills it for me. Most of the time they have amusing stories about their regulars, and that's about it. You hear stories about other guys who f*7k them, and that's well and good from the vantage point of the non-interested let-me-dick-you-some-more client. It must be pretty unimaginable as a suitor or BF. I mean do you really want to talk about the guys giving it to her 🙂 Well it takes all kinds. Now I'll be honest and i did get into one of them, but she stopped when we were together, or at least I knew she stopped, as far as I could tell, anyway we saw each other pretty much every day, so that was a huge waste of time.     

[Howdy Doody]

On 6/11/2022 at 6:33 PM, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

I have rarely met a thera that I wanted to know more than physically. Oftentimes, its really the vast difference in background and experience that kills it for me. Most of the time they have amusing stories about their regulars, and that's about it. You hear stories about other guys who f*7k them, and that's well and good from the vantage point of the non-interested let-me-dick-you-some-more client. It must be pretty unimaginable as a suitor or BF. I mean do you really want to talk about the guys giving it to her 🙂 Well it takes all kinds. Now I'll be honest and i did get into one of them, but she stopped when we were together, or at least I knew she stopped, as far as I could tell, anyway we saw each other pretty much every day, so that was a huge waste of time.     

Sir, how did you end your relationship? Or, she ended the relationship?

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

I remember posting them here (o sa kabilang falling for a therapist thread or maybe sa kabilang board) but O couldn’t find it anywhere. 
 

I guess it wasn’t meant to be anyway. 

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

10 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

Sir, how did you end your relationship? Or, she ended the relationship?

I ended it when she started going bat shit crazy. Well you wouldn’t find that out unless you get into a relationship. And then you want to run for the hills. These things start well and end badly. I remember when it started and I was in a daze of bliss and I could see her face in the clouds. And I remember when it ended I didn’t want to touch her with a ten foot pole 

[mharky]

Ang hirap kasi the past and the present will haunt.. marupok pa naman ako, so far im rotating theras, there are a few I wanted to be regulars, pero i fear for myself getting involved.. 

[Anonymous]

Not actually falling but there are some theras that are really down to earth at interesting na gusto mong kaibiganin. I have a few which are actually friends na you actually hang out with on occasions. And they are the ones that treat you as friends hindi yung trato sayo source of cash. Hindi yung nangungutang or nanghihingi na parang yayamanin ka at looks at you with dollar eyes. 

[Howdy Doody]

4 hours ago, BRAIN FOR HIRE said:

I ended it when she started going bat shit crazy. Well you wouldn’t find that out unless you get into a relationship. And then you want to run for the hills. These things start well and end badly. I remember when it started and I was in a daze of bliss and I could see her face in the clouds. And I remember when it ended I didn’t want to touch her with a ten foot pole 

Your experience sir is the patented script of the beginning and ending of these kinds of relationship.

[DIRTY HARRY]

On 5/15/2022 at 4:40 PM, Second Mavic said:

Naalala nyo pa ba ko? 

"You'll never know unti you try,"

nakupo.... ka awa awang marurupok