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2 years na kami, simula ng magnegosyo sya, madalang na kaming mag sex, minsan once a week, naging 2x a month, ngayon 1 month na hindi pa rin kami nag sesex, nag try na kong yayain sya kaso ayaw nya, wala daw sya sa mood :( , sobrang aga nya matulog lagi :( hindi ko na sya niyaya ngayon kasi baka mapahiya lang uli ako. Madalas ko tuloy maisip na may babae sya or minsan na iinsecure na rin ako, kaya kahit gabi ng super exercise ako para maging sexy at super diet :( .

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hi, I'm a newbie here but in my opinion, your guy may just be busy handling the business, same thing happened to me before, like your guy, I started a business, you see, the first months of the business is very crucial. yun yung pinakamahirap, yun yung point na laging walang kita, or feeling mo malulugi business mo, then you will start feeling frustrated and tired. maybe that was the reason kung bakit parang nawawala yung affection, muntik na kami mag break ng GF ko for 8 years. because of that. She thought nawawalan na ako ng affection and time para sa kanaya, well in fact i was doing it for our future. well anyway we worked things out by communicating lang. hope you guys can work it out..

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No, live-in lang kami for 2 years and 2 months na.

 

 

If youve lived together that long, I will work on the assumption that you have been in a relationship with this guy a little bit longer than that.

 

 

At that point, id think that sex is not all there is to your relationship.

 

 

While I will acknowledge that they physical expression of ones love for the other person is very important in any relationship, I also believe that you need to be a bit more tolerant and understanding of his current situation. Starting a business (or even work for that matter) is not easy.

 

 

Ask him whats wrong. Ask him about his business. Ask him what makes it difficult. Show an interest in what is going on in his life.

 

 

At its best, he could just be totally engrossed in his business and preparing for your future life together.

 

 

At its worst though, be prepared that there might be someone else and that your relationship is about to end and that is the reason why he wont have sex with you.

 

 

But dont fret or get upset that you dont get sex - not without knowing why or understanding the circumstances surrounding the situation.

 

 

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uh oh, that usually leads to trouble

 

try to find out what makes him ticked with erection, baka gusto nya ng foreplay muna or kinky lingerie dresses or baka gusto nya ng super lambing or baka ayaw nyang nada downl sya. build back his self-esteem or give him high regards...mga papuri, basta don't ever give up on him, try to search ways or baka meron syang medical condition that he's keeping secret from you...yan lang mga tanging advise, i hope it won't end up in separation, good lucksa iyo inday

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theres nothing wrong naman if you dont have actions, if you had doubt on him well you better speak out so he would understand you. on my part talagang matagalan to dahil she left for abroad to work, leaving me helplessly hehehe! but i dont mind naman kung maging kaong or matigang ako ng matagal, time will come to have a deed!

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Ms. Inday, sa tingin ko naman nasa iyo pa rin ang atensiyon niya. Sa mga tulad kasi naming Workaholic, yung life partner ang primary motivation para mas tumindi drive sa work.

 

Malamang sinabi na rin niya sa iyo na "Para rin naman sa kinabukasan natin tong ginagawa ko eh." or something like that... If he did, he really means it. Kaso malamang hard times talaga sa Business dahil pasimula pa lang.

 

Hay, baliktad naman tayo ng sitwasyon. Misis ko naman naging frigid. so bihira na lang kami may action pero the love is still there. The affection is still present... Its just that there's no sex anymore.

 

Pero kung ako naman yung nasa kalagayan ng partner mo, I'd still make sure I satisfy you every night. Kaso baka hindi kaya ng katawan niya. I think he's under a lotta stress lately.

 

Have you tried giving him a teasing massage? That might work.

 

 

Also, sometimes its not enough to just ask your partner for sex. You have to put him in the right mood. Foreplay is very crucial.

 

About sa suspicions mo na may significant other siya, forget about that thought. Habang iniisip mo yan, lalo ka lang magmumukhang insecure. Kapag nahalata naman niyang insecure ka, lalo na kung ipinahalata mong naghihinala ka, baka mauwi lang sa away at lalong lumala sitwasyon.

 

I remember being hurt the most whenever my wife doesn't realize that I'm making sacrifices for our future while she selfishly demands for all of my time. Minsan ayaw ako papasukin. Mas pinagseselosan pa nga trabaho ko eh.

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INDAY any news update???

 

Well sinunod ko yung mga payo nyo to talk to him muna bago mag isip ng kung ano-ano,nag usap na kami, I asked him bakit hindi na kami nag sesex, sabi nya masyado nga raw syang maraming iniisip tungkol sa negosyo at medyo nape-presurre din sya, and he assured me na wala talagang iba, napapraning kasi ako kapapanood ng My Husband's Woman :), anyway I'm trying to regain the sweetness again.

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As a guy, i think there's something wrong. Is he old enough to be having sexual problems?

 

Even for a girl, i seriously think that the missing sexual attraction is pointing to something.

 

Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala :( , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon.

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Actually may sinabi sya sa akin, hindi na daw katulad ng dati ang erection nya, minsan daw nawawala :( , kalungkot nga, awa ako sa kanya, hindi ko alam kung anong pwedeng gawin sa problema na yon.

 

inday, you can seek professional help for his erectile condition if its ok with him. meron naman gamot to help him with your concern :)

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