Keeping The Long Distance Relationship Alive

[dragonsmount]

LDR? kalokohan un... For me walang nagtatagal n lrd... Maybe it works but not longer... I mean sa panahon ngaun? Wala n may kaya iilan n lang b matinu s mundo..

i disagree... i know a couple that survives this kind of thing... but very rare nlng yung ganito. 1% in the whole PHL

[yaraaesa]

LDR? kalokohan un... For me walang nagtatagal n lrd... Maybe it works but not longer... I mean sa panahon ngaun? Wala n may kaya iilan n lang b matinu s mundo..

I dont think so. Iam a OFW and im happy with my relationship. All it takes is trust. tsaka mas madali n nga ngaun dahil sa technology unlike noon. My point ka nmn sa “Sa Panahon Ngaun” kc iba n tlga ngaun mas liberated na mga tao ngaun. Pero if u really love youre parter kaya yan. Unless nangingibabaw tawag ng laman kysa sa luv mo sa partner mo.

[Daddy's tart]

 

I guess consistent chats and kahit sobrang busy with different time zones kami, we tend to send cheesy hellos & ILYs, kumain ka na ba and what happen with our day araw2. i’m into this super toxic job but ang swerte ko sa current partner ko na super understanding and malambing plus malibog din. We have steamy SOPs and he never fails to get me wet kahit over chats lang. I agree it could really be hard at times lalo kapag miss nyo isat isa and you wish to be with him nalang and magkasama kayo palagi.

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

For LDR to work, you need two things (this is just my take).

 

1. Trust

2. Constant Communication

[BoyBumbilya27]

TRUSTS AND COMMUNICATION

 

"Distance means nothing when someone means everything"

[mildoneforever]

Works for a while. But generally, it does not end well.

[mildoneforever]

Works for a while. But generally, it does not end well.

[mildoneforever]

Works for a while. But generally, it does not end well.

[mildoneforever]

Works for a while. But generally, it does not end well.

[jessetiu]

knowing...she /her is a ....BLESSING

[mai0789]

It works, I've been in one for 5 years now. Constant communication and Trust lang talaga

[nps-ynah]

To keep the long distance relationship alive you have to keep the communication both side .

[#Lovey]

Trust , communication, dont entertain others ..

[Marco_W]

Generally mahirap talaga ldr lalo na if we are talking years.

 

If once a year lang nagkikita, masakit din for me sabihin pero mas magiging good for both parties na cool off muna. It will let both of you grow as a person and character to meet and learn from other people and culture. And if you are really meant together, love will find a way sa huli. Of course, Im referring to 2 people with the most sincere of intention and trust with each other.

 

Now if you feel na you've grown enough and that you can already see her/him as your future hudband/wife, then by all means do everything you can to be with her. Lay out a plan. After 1,2,3 years nakadecide na kung paano kayo magsasama ulit.

[IMYOURS1414]

Ldr relatioship

Trust

Communication

[Black.Angel]

This will work if and only if both of you wanted it to happen regardless of how far you are apart.

[Bella Hadid of TVS]

This will work if and only if both of you wanted it to happen regardless of how far you are apart.

I agree

[KT3]

Statistics show that 90% of LDRs end up failing. After all, proximity plays a huge role in nurturing relationships. For the 10% that were successful, both parties actively found ways to communicate with each other on a consistent basis.

[Hannabi]

LDR okay lang yan basta ang mahalaga di kayo nawawalan ng time s bawat isa,Yun kase ang pinagmumulan ng iilan nating mga LDR relationship kung bakit naghahanap ang ilan ng iba,Everytime n pde kang mag chat or mag call gawin mo iparamdam mo n kahit busy ako di ako nawawalanng oras sayo kase nga andu ang love.Ipagpapatuloy mo yang gngwa mo hanggang s makauwe kana or hanggang s huli kase s oras n magbago ka maraming pumapasok s isip ng tao kaya kapag sinimulan mong gawin panindigan mo hanggang s huli,..Suggestion ko lng nmn yan s mga LDR.

[Ms_Bianca❤️]

long distance yong tiponh di kayo mawawalan ng oras sa isat isa

[Brian214]

LD relations don't work. For some it only lasts because of lies, deceit and cover ups. Now to be clear this is applicable to those who don't see each other at least twice a month. For the rest, you may want to stop fooling yourself so you could avoid wasting your time for something that has a higher chance of failing. End it and move on as soon as you can.

[Creepy Knight (CK)]

It actually depends on both parties, its a case to case basis i would say.

[muad_dib]

Will never work...me maximum shelf life lang kasi ng 7 years average...then the 70/30 principle kicks in and takes care of the rest for either you or the other person...

[Flash_Brown]

Will never work...me maximum shelf life lang kasi ng 7 years average...then the 70/30 principle kicks in and takes care of the rest for either you or the other person...

 

what is the 70/30 principle sir??? if i may ask....

 

just to be on topic.....maybe 5-10% lang nag survive sa ganito...my cousin learned this the hard way...2 years lang siyang nawala nag break sila nung GF niya.....considering 8 years na sila then mag aasawa na pinsan ko after just meeting the girl less than 2 years....

[muad_dib]

brother...walang 100% na tao ever...habang tumatagal and relasyon natin max out to 70% efficiency individually (maybe 80% at most) palaging complimentary to 100% both ways...kapag BF/GF lang darating yung 70% constant ceiling point at 30% discontentment point...kaya bro or babes man palaging "naghahanap" o "tumitingin sa iba"...kasi nagiging napaka predictable, dependable at boring ng 70-80%...yung 20-30% excitement e nakakabuhay naman talaga ng dugo...kaso vicious cycle nga lang palitan mo man yung 70-80% na "investment" mo...yung bago mong 20-30% well mag max out din eventually to 70-80% until mag-commit na kayo till death do you part...then your pieces are made whole...

 

so eto yung secret sauce kung bakit di nagtatagal talaga ang mga long distance relationship...either time and boredom gets you or fear overtakes you...kaya maniwala kayo ke Queen Bee...put a damn ring on it if you think it's really worth it (for all genders itong abiso na ito)...