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Ang experience ko sa Utang is this, wag ka mangungutang kung di malinay sa yo ang panggagalingan ng pambayad mo.

 

Pag nag pa utang ka naman, dapat naka ready ka sa dalawang bagay: either di ka na bayaran o babayaran ka pero matagal.

kaya pag pinakawalan mo, siguraduhin mo na di mo kakailanganin agad yung pera

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nagpautang ako at a financially tight time sa father-in-law ko due to a medical emergency. 90k (nobody else around had quick access to such amount, daw). he died after 2 months, unfortunately, and the debt was never paid.

 

tama ba na may sama ng loob parin ako after 2 years?

 

Depends on you and the circumstances. If I were in your shoes, I probably wouldn't hold resentment. Isipin ko na lng na tulong yun and besides, what can you do? Ikasama lng ng loob mo yan. My uncle owes me a sht ton of money for his business but I don't count it against him since he's the only one taking care of my lola between them siblings. And hindi naman nababawasan medical bills ni lola. We are not obligated by any means to just dish out money. Nasa prinsipyo na natin yun. Now kung may nangutang sayo at hindi ka binabayaran tapos panay luho lng then that's a different story.

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nagpautang ako at a financially tight time sa father-in-law ko due to a medical emergency. 90k (nobody else around had quick access to such amount, daw). he died after 2 months, unfortunately, and the debt was never paid.

 

tama ba na may sama ng loob parin ako after 2 years?

consider it as a gift para nde sumama loob mo

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Yung pinautangan ko

Mas masarap pa buhay ng pamilya nya.

Pa europe at tate mga travels kahit di sya kasama.

Pero akong nagpautang di naman maka travel.

 

Tpos pag magbayad ilang taon bago matapos.

 

Ang maganda lang dyan, di sya makautang muli dahil ipaalala kong may utang pa sya kung nanghihiram muli. Kapal muks!

 

Sana wag nang bayaran para di na ako mahiraman muli

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On 8/17/2019 at 8:28 PM, Katniss_12 said:

The best yung mga babaeng nagpopost ng "you don't need anyone to survive in this world...you are strong" tapos may utang siya sayo. Eep. HAHAHAHA facepalm nalang....pede ba? :P

daming ganito sa FB at dito sa MTC. kung saan saan nakakarating, daming damit, laging nasa coffeeshops, high end ang phone and gadgets, tapos tinatakasan at inaaway pa yung inutangan. sila pa yung may post na "I will cut you from my life" hahahaha. Mga pictures nila, laging solo pero sobra yung pagkain haha. May sponsor na, nangungutang pa.

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6 hours ago, Maverick II said:

daming ganito sa FB at dito sa MTC. kung saan saan nakakarating, daming damit, laging nasa coffeeshops, high end ang phone and gadgets, tapos tinatakasan at inaaway pa yung inutangan. sila pa yung may post na "I will cut you from my life" hahahaha. Mga pictures nila, laging solo pero sobra yung pagkain haha. May sponsor na, nangungutang pa.

Agreed. May kakilala ako na ganito kung mag birthday anak pa resort resort pa or staycation tapos yung partner nya signature clothes pa. Umutang sya samin pinapahiram naman namin kasi close friend nya. Pero to the point she stole a  jewelry from my wife, that ended their relationship. Ayun shes now being hunted for fraud kasi she gained access to a foreign credit card and used that to splurge.

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5 hours ago, Psari19 said:

Mangungutang panggatas daw ng anak pero nakaraan lang nakita ko sa post nag outing. naubos ata pera sa outing pero panggatas ng anak di man lang inisip.

dami ganyan. 

utang emergency daw. in 3 days nasa boracay or nasa casino. 

utang wala na daw makain. pagtingin mo dami bago items. 

utang medical needs daw. bigla dagdag puhunan sa axie (actually forgiveable pa nga to at least kahit in theory may pinaikot na pera. personal lang talaga ako inis sa axie). 

utang tapos in kind nalang kapalit, kulang yung kapalit. may pinautang ako ng 5k dahil legit naman nasira bubong ng bahay, pero nung singilan na binigyan ako ng bag, pagtingin ko 3k nalang resale value. meron din walk or nudes daw kapalit, kulang naman imbes na 2p naging 1p or instead of madaminh vcs and videos isa o dalawa lang. 

 

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3 hours ago, Duel of Fate said:

dami ganyan. 

utang emergency daw. in 3 days nasa boracay or nasa casino. 

utang wala na daw makain. pagtingin mo dami bago items. 

utang medical needs daw. bigla dagdag puhunan sa axie (actually forgiveable pa nga to at least kahit in theory may pinaikot na pera. personal lang talaga ako inis sa axie). 

utang tapos in kind nalang kapalit, kulang yung kapalit. may pinautang ako ng 5k dahil legit naman nasira bubong ng bahay, pero nung singilan na binigyan ako ng bag, pagtingin ko 3k nalang resale value. meron din walk or nudes daw kapalit, kulang naman imbes na 2p naging 1p or instead of madaminh vcs and videos isa o dalawa lang. 

 

nakakasira ng relationship ang “utang”. Same for me. Ayaw ko na lang palakihin. 
May iba totally kinakalimutan. Hays…

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On 12/4/2019 at 1:28 PM, johndoe13 said:

nagpautang ako at a financially tight time sa father-in-law ko due to a medical emergency. 90k (nobody else around had quick access to such amount, daw). he died after 2 months, unfortunately, and the debt was never paid.

 

tama ba na may sama ng loob parin ako after 2 years?

imho pag family tas medical related, dapat kaakibat na yung idea na 99percent chance di maibabalik sayo. 

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May nangutang na naman friend ko panggastos daw sa nanay nyang na-ospital. Sabi nya babayaran nya agad pagsahod ng kapatid nya. Pinahiram ko naman kasi tiwala ako dahil friend ko tapos ilang araw walang seen sa message ko at di nagpaparamdam mga isang linggo na.  Matagal ko pa namang friend tapos sa utang lang kami masisira.

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