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#121 peewee1010

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Posted 09 July 2017 - 12:27 PM

for me it depends on what kind of person he/she is.

#122 Chacharap

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Posted 09 July 2017 - 12:51 PM

trust and patience

#123 hks7mgte

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Posted 13 July 2017 - 11:17 PM

Consistency, consistency, consistency.

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Posted 17 July 2017 - 09:27 PM

Consistency, consistency, consistency.



Agree! Kung nasimulan madalas magskype, ganun din dapat kahit after some time.
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#125 Justeen

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Posted 19 July 2017 - 02:04 AM

Also don't forget to "vidjackol" always :)

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Posted 26 July 2017 - 10:12 PM

Hi Everyone, 

I had this college/HS GF we were together for 4 years during those times. Then we broke up right before graduating and 2 years ago we recently got connected to each other. She already resides in Sydney and I'm still here in the Ph. 

I went to her every year since then and she comes back here in our country to see me for about almost 6 weeks so we see each other twice a year. 

Just this May, she told me that she fell out of love for me again. I really had my doubts with her excuses that she doesn't love me anymore. We were already planning for our future together and that I'll be the one to move to AU. I kept on asking her if she was breaking up with me because of this guy friend that she has that I'm always jealous about and she just kept on denying it.

I'm having a hard time moving on from her and last week i just got confirmation that she and the guy are already dating and i confronted them both about it since this guy was also introduced to me around 3 - 4 times. I feel so stupid right now and heartbroken. When my ex and I talked about it she said that "nadevelop" lang daw. And she's not happy with what she did to me and she's feeling guilty about it. 

Man, I really need your advice on how to move on/get over this situation. I really really love this girl i thought we were gonna get married already next year. I was supposed to buy a ring last month. Man im going crazy. frown.gif



#127 EWhin

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 03:07 AM

Constant communication is the key. And cam to cam. (you know what i mean) :)



#128 Mr3000gt

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 03:41 AM

It never work for me? I haved experience for 4 years and it just never work? It's the trust issue.

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 05:35 AM

Don't be afraid of a long distance relationship instead think of it as set of test on your true love...as saying says “Real gold is not afraid of the test of fire.” if you want to live together you must learn how to live apart...pag kayo, kayo ano mang distance yan...
Some tips:
Communicate regularly but not excessive
Trust your partner but be honest also
Make visit each other if possible

#130 Arianno

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 06:49 AM

Dapat kapag long distance minsan nagkikita pa rin kahit papaano.  :)  Kapag sobrang tagal na hindi nagkikita minsan nangangaliwa.



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Posted 30 October 2017 - 06:03 PM

Communication, to forget is the opposite.

I don't like LDR setup personally, I wanted us to be with each other. 😀

#132 Bricks🍻

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 08:04 PM

Rule#1 Bawal mawalan ng load

#133 singarage

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Posted 31 October 2017 - 07:01 AM

Rule#1 Bawal mawalan ng load

 

Truth!!! 

 

Rule #2 Bawal mawalan ng battery!

 

Rule #3 Always answer the calls or texts!  LOL

 

I am currently in an LDR for about 8 months now.  Biggest hurdle is trust.  Specially if the other party has lied and/or cheated before in current relationship.



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Posted 01 November 2017 - 12:31 PM

As long as you have a good communication going and extensive patience and understanding, it'll work. Lalo pa ngayon that you can easily communicate ng real time with the use of the net.

I think one of the most na lang dapat tandaan is let your partner know where you'll be going and who you will be with. Para sa akin kasi, if he knows the company I'm gonna be with, he'd know for himself that I'll be safe and maybe he can even get in touch with one of them pag hindi ako mareach. It also gives this sense of security, na kahit magkalayo ka alam nya nangyayari sayo.

#135 clandestinecuddles

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Posted 15 November 2017 - 02:10 AM

Always make sure that your phone has full battery and theres a strong wifi connection. But more important is for you to have that connection that binds you and the enthusiasm and willingness to talk anytime of day even if it messes up your sleeping pattern. Add facetime , playtime,SOT and SOP and you can hurdle the space time and distance between you. With hi tech phone features now you can see him/ her play. Pwede nyo pa palakihin yung maliit .......

Na screen and font. :) Enjoy LDR

#136 Shadowmoon01

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Posted 21 November 2017 - 06:17 AM

For me, it's TLC & Love

Trust - Wag masyadong seloso/selosa. Hindi lahat ng hinala ay tama. Have faith in your partner
Loyalty - Self explanatory. Wag ka nang lumandi kung may syota na. 
Communication - Importante rin syempre yung palagi kayong nagkakausap. Di mo na nga makasama, di mo pa makausap. Nagrelasyon pa kayo  :D 

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Love - Given na to

 


Edited by Shadowmoon01, 21 November 2017 - 06:18 AM.

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Posted 21 November 2017 - 07:52 PM

Trust and Time

 

Trust your partner. Never ever forget to find time even in your most busy schedule to let your partner know that he/she's remembered or missed.



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Posted 27 November 2017 - 04:18 PM

Distance would never be a problem for two mature person that love each other.

#139 Robmeister

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Posted 01 December 2017 - 07:50 AM

My longest relationship was 6 years and it was a long distance relation. hindi sobrang long distance. I was in Manila and she was in the south (Provincial area). We seldom see each other like once or twice a week. minsan after 2 weeks or longer.

 

Compared to most of my EXs na nakakasama ko almost everyday, There is this feeling na na mimiss mo and you are longing for her hugs, kisses, touch and body. Sobra ung excitement palagi when we see each other. Always pag meron chance, we engage in premarital sex. Compared to somebody who's just always around, Sometimes di mo na cya na mimiss. it ends up minsan boring na or nakakasawa na ung ngyayari everyday. 

 

So I think, LDR usually works for me. 



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Posted 04 December 2017 - 01:35 PM

it will work :wub:  






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