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How would you know if you really, genuinely love someone?


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#1 jantheman

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Posted 20 November 2013 - 07:54 PM

Thoughts anyone?

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Posted 20 November 2013 - 08:13 PM

When you're interests take a back seat to hers. When you're willing to put yourself in harm's way to ensure her safety.

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Posted 20 November 2013 - 08:20 PM

when you're with someone else and you still think of her.

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Posted 20 November 2013 - 10:02 PM

Frankly, I don't know what love really means anymore...

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Posted 20 November 2013 - 10:31 PM

Hmm.. as far as I know, it would be when I try to be the best for that person. Think of his welfare, his interests and how he becomes a better person with me. But sometimes I think, paano nga kaya? I myself still want to be sooooo swept off my feet. So... Fate, Destiny, whatever-you-are-called, surprise me. :)

#6 clandestinecuddles

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Posted 21 November 2013 - 01:05 AM

When Ill do anything for him and I'm willing to bear any cross just to love and be with that person.Posted ImagePosted ImagePosted Image When nothing else matters except him.

#7 silvervic

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Posted 21 November 2013 - 10:30 AM

Hmmm, I think it's when you feel that her mere presence is already enough for you to last all the days of your life. If you feel this now, then she's the one. If not, then graciously make your way out and find another. ^_^

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Posted 21 November 2013 - 11:35 AM

Hmmm, I think it's when you feel that her mere presence is already enough for you to last all the days of your life. If you feel this now, then she's the one. If not, then graciously make your way out and find another. ^_^


wouldnt that count as a fleeting moment of infatuation though?
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Posted 21 November 2013 - 11:57 AM

wouldnt that count as a fleeting moment of infatuation though?

Everything starts with infatuation, I guess. So, yeah, you might say that. However, there lies a crossroad when infatuation is fleeting: 1. you feel less interested/concerned for the person or 2. you've become more interested/concerned thus developed a love for the person. Which that may be, the answer lies in you. ^_^

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Posted 21 November 2013 - 07:53 PM

when you stop looking!

#11 jantheman

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Posted 25 November 2013 - 09:03 AM

When you forgive her despite all the harm and emotional abuse she dishes at you....


Now thats just wrong.
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Posted 27 November 2013 - 06:39 AM

When you feel he is the one you want to grow old with happily.

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Posted 27 November 2013 - 02:40 PM

When you dream of her.

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Posted 27 November 2013 - 05:55 PM

i know that i truly love her when i step out of my way just to go to her place and take care of her when she's sick. there are also times na pag sobra lakas ng ulan 3/4 ng payong sa kanya and i make sure na hindi siya mababasa without thinking of myself nalang. tapos i stayed away from MTC during the relationship (O HA, MAHIRAP YAN!) :)

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Posted 01 December 2013 - 11:07 PM

kung totoong mahal mo ang tao, kapakanan nya pa rin iniisip mo ... katangahan na kung katangahan para sa iba
pero para sa katulad mong nagmamahal ng todo, mas mahalaga yung tao kesa sa issue.

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Posted 01 December 2013 - 11:25 PM

knowing is worth being hurt than not knowing at all

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Posted 02 December 2013 - 11:25 PM

When you stop entertaining other men or suitors

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Posted 03 December 2013 - 06:43 AM

when you gladly do things you dislike, simply because you're doing it for her.
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#19 silvervic

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Posted 03 December 2013 - 10:13 AM

when you gladly do things you dislike, simply because you're doing it for her.

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Posted 05 December 2013 - 08:00 PM

You really can't tell. At least cguro you've been together for at least 10 years




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