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#9021 blurryface

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Posted 23 January 2017 - 08:29 AM

It's actually not hard to fall in love with them...they are after all the same as other girls..they also fall in love.

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Posted 23 January 2017 - 08:55 AM

 

My apologies but I have to disagree with your post sir. Yes, falling in love with a thera does have complications. That has been discussed in this thread ad nauseum but saying it's the worst decision in your life maybe pushing it too far. A lot of us who work in this industry have real life relationships, some even proceed to marriage and happy families. Yes, we in a way sell our bodies to make a good living, but we don't sell our souls. We are still ladies who can fall in love and give love to a deserving partner. 

 

It takes a lot of gut for a man to accept what we do in our jobs, but once he is at peace with his decision, the moment he sees us as women instead instead of just therapists, I believe that is the point where real foundations for a relationship can be laid down.  :D  :D  :D

May, there is no point in complicating things... just remember what I had shared with you, it's not wisdom, but definitely it makes sense.

 

"Accepting your job is a noble thing, but getting/helping you out of there once a relationship is established... then, that's another story." 



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Posted 23 January 2017 - 08:57 AM

To tell you the truth Sir, I don't really go to "spas". I'm not even the one who made my MTC account. I just got curious one day and looked through the pages and chanced upon the theras picture and something about her intrigued me. She may not be my first Thera in the spa that she works in but she's gonna be my last. I'm not really into that kind of service anyway, it feels so awkward to me hahaha. Anyway what's the point of making someone jealous, if she does have feelings for me(I'd be sooo happay if she did) why would I want to hurt her that way. That's just me I guess, thanks for the advice though.

 

Parang veteran move eto. The "newbie" story. :)

 

Oh well dude, effort lang both sides. Thera ko nageeffort na makita ako at minsan natutulog sa bahay (no sex ha) cuddle lang. Hinde pa kasi kami kaya no free sex. I still respect her and enjoeyd being with her. :)



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Posted 23 January 2017 - 09:03 AM

 
Parang veteran move eto. The "newbie" story. :)
 
Oh well dude, effort lang both sides. Thera ko nageeffort na makita ako at minsan natutulog sa bahay (no sex ha) cuddle lang. Hinde pa kasi kami kaya no free sex. I still respect her and enjoeyd being with her. :)


I respect your opinion Sir, but it's all true. Anyway I feel the same way for the thera that i fell for. All respect to her and I just enjoy the moments that I'm with her.

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Posted 23 January 2017 - 09:13 AM

Nung college ako, i had a long time relationship with a therapist. Super galing nya na naalaala ko pa rin sya hanggang ngayon :P


Haha nafall ka na pala sa thera. Muntik na ako pero nakita ko na marami pang babae sa mundo :) Iba mas maganda pa kay thera tapos professional din, hehe.

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Posted 23 January 2017 - 08:38 PM

Haha nafall ka na pala sa thera. Muntik na ako pero nakita ko na marami pang babae sa mundo :) Iba mas maganda pa kay thera tapos professional din, hehe.


Anong ibig sabihin ng professorial? Yung una kong gf na thera ay bata, dalaga at older lang sa akin ng 1 1/2 years. Ang sweet nya, makinis, pwedeng artista at super sexy.

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 08:50 AM

this is happening to me right now.

she was a top thera before but now a recep.

she's the one who recommend who the thera i will choose.

to cut the story short, it resulted to a relationship.

she's my personal thera from then on.

during a first month, there are a lot of ups and down, break in/out...but mostly ups naman.

i fall for her even though that i know it will be complicated, but still i pursue it.

now, im still hanging on or i'll let her go...since she want no commitment...

maybe today, tomorrow or this week...the relationship will fall out OR might be even get stronger.

but i think the former is our destiny...my gutz...

 

resulted to break up and hatred...sad story...anyway, life must go on and move on another charter of life...

lessons learned, dont fall agad agad to a girl, kilalanin muna ang tunay na ugali...higit sa lahat iwasan ang liar...



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Posted 24 January 2017 - 08:58 AM

 
resulted to break up and hatred...sad story...anyway, life must go on and move on another charter of life...
lessons learned, dont fall agad agad to a girl, kilalanin muna ang tunay na ugali...higit sa lahat iwasan ang liar...


It's really hard when falling in love.. like you've said there are alot of ups and downs.. I believe you're stronger now Sir.. Life goes on and lessons learned. I wish you luck Sir.

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 10:40 AM

Pero the best pa rin if you both fall in love with each other never go back to the eay you used to be
. Meaning si Thera mag retire na eh tayo as a guys we stop going to spa.. its just a matter of understanding and lowering of each other pride..

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 10:53 AM

Pero the best pa rin if you both fall in love with each other never go back to the eay you used to be
. Meaning si Thera mag retire na eh tayo as a guys we stop going to spa.. its just a matter of understanding and lowering of each other pride..

 

I agree with you Drew. Falling in love should for both sides, retiring as thera and GM to forget the spa industry.

But most, i think, it will be hard for both to do that...anyway, sabi nga, life must go on...learned from experiences...

i wish you luck fallenengr...2 days na moving on... 


Edited by mistxtreme, 24 January 2017 - 10:54 AM.


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Posted 24 January 2017 - 11:43 AM

I fell for Mavic. Naging complicated masyado na mahirap masustain. Wala namang future so nag end sya.
Now it's been 19 days na hindi ako nakapag-espa. Masaya na akong padaw-dalaw sa mga forum.

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 12:23 PM

I fell for Mavic. Naging complicated masyado na mahirap masustain. Wala namang future so nag end sya.Now it's been 19 days na hindi ako nakapag-espa. Masaya na akong padaw-dalaw sa mga forum.


Hehe...public admission for your affections for Mavic sir?I admire you...I am certain you are not the only guy with feelings for her, 100% certain madami pa iba.I haven't gotten her yet but she seems to be a real catch.

I agree being with a thera is complicated.I used to be in a relationship with one and she still worked for a time before I was finally able to make her agree to stop.The FRs drove me crazy, i get jealous fits all the time.I kept imagining her getting carried away during ES..lol..i never had peace of mind until she left the industry..Sadly we broke up eventually but despite all that, i never had regrets.I still thank the heavens for making her a part of my life. :)

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 01:04 PM

Hehe...public admission for your affections for Mavic sir?I admire you...I am certain you are not the only guy with feelings for her, 100% certain madami pa iba.I haven't gotten her yet but she seems to be a real catch.
I agree being with a thera is complicated.I used to be in a relationship with one and she still worked for a time before I was finally able to make her agree to stop.The FRs drove me crazy, i get jealous fits all the time.I kept imagining her getting carried away during ES..lol..i never had peace of mind until she left the industry..Sadly we broke up eventually but despite all that, i never had regrets.I still thank the heavens for making her a part of my life. :)


Hehe. Tapos na so pwede na Sabihin. I have not met you yet but i know your thera gf too. Same here, i have no regrets and still thankful for the memories and experiences we shared. Good luck sa bago mong conquest. Ako, maybe in a few days, meron na akong bibisitahing bago.

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 01:08 PM

MALAYA
(Moira Dela Torre)

Pasensya na, kung papatuligin na muna
Ang pusong napagod kakahintay
Kaya sa natitirang segundong kayakap ka
Maaari bang magkunwaring akin ka pa

Mangangarap hanggang sa pagbalik
Mangangarap pa rin kahit masakit

Baka sakaling makita kitang muli
Pagsikat ng araw, paglipas ng gabi
Kung di pipilitin ang di pa para sakin
Baka sakaling maibalik

Malaya ka na, Malaya

Isusuko na ang sandata aatras na sa laban
Di dahil naduduwag kundi dahil mahal kita
Mahirap nang labanan mga espada ng orasan
Kung pipilitin pa, lalo lang masasaktan

Mangangarap hanggang sa pagbalik
Mangangarap pa rin kahit masakit

Baka sakaling makita kitang muli
Pagsikat ng araw, paglipas ng gabi
Kung di pipilitin ang di pa para sakin
Baka sakaling maibalik

Malaya ka na, Malaya

#9035 Usebyo

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 01:20 PM

Ang lungkot naman. Sana makalaya ka na rin, Dalisay

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 01:21 PM

Hehe. Tapos na so pwede na Sabihin. I have not met you yet but i know your thera gf too. Same here, i have no regrets and still thankful for the memories and experiences we shared. Good luck sa bago mong conquest. Ako, maybe in a few days, meron na akong bibisitahing bago.


Working on that new conquest bro.Though I dont think "conquest" is the best term.Object of my affection is more appropriate.Lol

Good luck bro, hope you find a new love, thera or otherwise. :)

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 01:28 PM

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Working on that new conquest bro.Though I dont think "conquest" is the best term.Object of my affection is more appropriate.Lol
Good luck bro, hope you find a new love, thera or otherwise. :)

Sorry for the wrong term. Well, i guess bibisita muna to find that spark again.

Btw may magandang bago in picture sa Antipolo. Baka mabisita ako dun soon.

Edited by Usebyo, 24 January 2017 - 01:31 PM.


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Posted 24 January 2017 - 01:47 PM

I
Sorry for the wrong term. Well, i guess bibisita muna to find that spark again.
Btw may magandang bago in picture sa Antipolo. Baka mabisita ako dun soon.


Happy hunting.Who knows I might catch you there.Midas Antipolo is my current home base. :)

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 02:28 PM

Happy hunting.Who knows I might catch you there.Midas Antipolo is my current home base. :)


Sige. Good luck sa iyo. I wish na may pag-asa ka. :D

Ako, tingin muna. Malayo lang nga ang Antipolo.

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Posted 24 January 2017 - 09:38 PM

Gusto ko na rin sanang buksan ang puso ko sa isang thera sa cacha pero bigla akong natakot... natatakot na akong umibig pa muli..




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