Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[AD3]

There are some "success" stories though. But those are far and few. Most end in failure.

[Danlim]

Enter into such relationship with a proper mindset. Unless you're willing to fully sustain her, expect there to be no sexual exclusivity.

[tinylurker]

Enter into such relationship with a proper mindset. Unless you're willing to fully sustain her, expect there to be no sexual exclusivity.

 

Exactly

[Guest kimikohayabusa]

masasaktan ka lang.

[cutiechavez]

ano mas kadiri? ma in love sa pokpok, or ma in love sa katulong? parang pareho lang kadiri

bro wag naman ganun, be thankful nalang hindi mo need mamasukan as katulong, or d mo need makipag sex para sa money, tao din sila, kinulang lang sa choice sa buhay,

[Cartof]

Have been close to having this problem before. I've probably been infatuated with my fair share of theras in the past. Kind of hard not to, the good ones are not only beautiful, they can also be really warm and charming. Problem is if I have what it takes to take the next step. Can I provide for this woman, considering how much her earnings are from this line of work. For those that have a kid(s), would I be able to love their kids as my own? Knowing the extent of their experience, will I be able to satisfy them in bed? There are all sorts of questions that I can't be too sure that I can answer in the positive, so I've tried to keep myself from developing feelings. It just gets hard at times. Some of these ladies are genuinely amazing and are only living in hard times and have very little recourse than to do what they do.

[Madvillain]

better fall in love with an office lady or even a mall saleslady if you want someone simple....

 

 

[Terminator15]

Possible but mahirap 

[Zarbor]

It’s been 15 years for us although we have not seen each other since Feb 2020 - l guess it’s a good thing still

[Player Number 1]

Acceptance is the key

[harry1001]

This is hard. But maybe worth it?

[wreckage]

Sabi nga ng mga die-hard romantics: "pinagtagpo pero di pinagtapos", "nagkakilala pero di nagkatadhana"

 

Masakit na masarap - I have been almost victim to this type of infatuation/emotional relationship and I've had my fair share of bad "break-ups" - the thing is our reality dictates to just live in that moment for what ever its worth you could end up with a friend in the end

[kepner2010]

To avoid such development of feelings, just put up a mindset of a business relationship.  It may be a cold approach, but like restaurants, you frequent the place because of good food and ambiance, but you never fall in a romantic relationship with the restaurant.  I also have a number of favorite theras which I frequently visit (before the COVID-19 pandemic)  I am close to them as friends.

 

[Terminator15]

Reality check:

1. You need to accept na other men would be touching her

2. If you want her to stop, then you should be able to provide her needs

 

[Madvillain]

you just have to avoid and have multiple thera partners, pag nag exclusive ka sa 1 thera, it's all downhill from there, you will end up falling in love with that thera...

 

better to have multiple para no emotions 

[Iceh0t]

Not a good foundation to start a relationship.

[kenL]

Almost had a relationship with a thera.... Pero may gf ako at that time, getting to know stage pa lang un with thera and getting to break sa gf..

kaso nkita nia ako sa trinoma with gf, so epic fail ang thera moment ko sna.. too bad..

[deatheater06]

i got a fair share on this topic.

gusto ko si thera pero she got a huge wall. iba daw ang personal sa work. i asked her if we can progress to the next level. ayun di ako sinagot. she kept me hanging there.

i think she is just protecting herself from pain and disappointments or i should say the harsh reality of her job. 

i really care for that lady. 

 

 

SEX is not just a physical act it is the invincible force that penetrates the SOUL

Edited August 27, 2021 by deatheater06

[BabyInvisible]

I agree from the previous post na infatuation lng at hindi talaga love, marahil sa nakukuha nila ung hindi nila sa current circle nila, madali sabihin na tanggap mo ung ginagawa nila habang wala ka pa sa puntong  magka relasyon kayo pero kadalasan un din ang sisira sa relasyon nyo.

[Chiananicole]

1 hour ago, AlakdangGala said:

I agree from the previous post na infatuation lng at hindi talaga love, marahil sa nakukuha nila ung hindi nila sa current circle nila, madali sabihin na tanggap mo ung ginagawa nila habang wala ka pa sa puntong  magka relasyon kayo pero kadalasan un din ang sisira sa relasyon nyo.

Truely.. walang masama mg mahal basta HinDi complicated relationship . walang pgkakaiba ni clients at thera important mahal nila isat isa at yung mahal nila isat isa mgbago sila'dalawa, para sa relationship nila.

[kano_d_great]

It’s a big NO since commerce ang baseline ng (future) relationship. It’s not a good foundation.. in my opinion only. ✌🏼

[arkiko]

very complicated yan mga bayaw, kelangan ng malawak na understanding. 

[Player Number 1]

Possible 

[batuten]

I had my share, fall in love with a mpa. Gave up everything including my family for her. And it turns out its not the life I can take. She loves me but we are just people from 2 different world. 
 

now i am back to normal. I wouldn’t do it again. Foolish me.

[optimus.prime]

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