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Keeping The Long Distance Relationship Alive

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#121 clandestinecuddles



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Posted 01 July 2017 - 10:47 AM

Time and space may keep you apart but the feelings and the love would always bind you.
Whatever it is that you had that bound you before should also be there even if you are far away from each other.
Masterbate together haha.

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Posted 01 July 2017 - 11:16 AM

I believe one of the factors that can help you keep a long distance relationship is " constant communication". Constant communication that gives the both of you time to talk to each other no matter how busy the both of you. Schedule the day and time on when you two are available to talk. Also, you don't need to have a very long conversation that would take hours just keep your relationship. If the person really loves you he/she will understand and will sacrifice. Let say if you guys are living in a different time zones.
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Posted 07 July 2017 - 02:23 PM

Please teach me. I just got into one and it's about to start.

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Posted 09 July 2017 - 12:27 PM

for me it depends on what kind of person he/she is.

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Posted 09 July 2017 - 12:51 PM

trust and patience

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Posted 13 July 2017 - 11:17 PM

Consistency, consistency, consistency.

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Posted 17 July 2017 - 09:27 PM

Consistency, consistency, consistency.

Agree! Kung nasimulan madalas magskype, ganun din dapat kahit after some time.
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Posted 19 July 2017 - 02:04 AM

Also don't forget to "vidjackol" always :)

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Posted 26 July 2017 - 10:12 PM

Hi Everyone, 

I had this college/HS GF we were together for 4 years during those times. Then we broke up right before graduating and 2 years ago we recently got connected to each other. She already resides in Sydney and I'm still here in the Ph. 

I went to her every year since then and she comes back here in our country to see me for about almost 6 weeks so we see each other twice a year. 

Just this May, she told me that she fell out of love for me again. I really had my doubts with her excuses that she doesn't love me anymore. We were already planning for our future together and that I'll be the one to move to AU. I kept on asking her if she was breaking up with me because of this guy friend that she has that I'm always jealous about and she just kept on denying it.

I'm having a hard time moving on from her and last week i just got confirmation that she and the guy are already dating and i confronted them both about it since this guy was also introduced to me around 3 - 4 times. I feel so stupid right now and heartbroken. When my ex and I talked about it she said that "nadevelop" lang daw. And she's not happy with what she did to me and she's feeling guilty about it. 

Man, I really need your advice on how to move on/get over this situation. I really really love this girl i thought we were gonna get married already next year. I was supposed to buy a ring last month. Man im going crazy. frown.gif

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 03:07 AM

Constant communication is the key. And cam to cam. (you know what i mean) :)

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 03:41 AM

It never work for me? I haved experience for 4 years and it just never work? It's the trust issue.

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 05:35 AM

Don't be afraid of a long distance relationship instead think of it as set of test on your true love...as saying says “Real gold is not afraid of the test of fire.” if you want to live together you must learn how to live apart...pag kayo, kayo ano mang distance yan...
Some tips:
Communicate regularly but not excessive
Trust your partner but be honest also
Make visit each other if possible

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 06:49 AM

Dapat kapag long distance minsan nagkikita pa rin kahit papaano.  :)  Kapag sobrang tagal na hindi nagkikita minsan nangangaliwa.

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 06:03 PM

Communication, to forget is the opposite.

I don't like LDR setup personally, I wanted us to be with each other. 😀

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Posted 30 October 2017 - 08:04 PM

Rule#1 Bawal mawalan ng load

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Posted 31 October 2017 - 07:01 AM

Rule#1 Bawal mawalan ng load




Rule #2 Bawal mawalan ng battery!


Rule #3 Always answer the calls or texts!  LOL


I am currently in an LDR for about 8 months now.  Biggest hurdle is trust.  Specially if the other party has lied and/or cheated before in current relationship.

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Posted 01 November 2017 - 12:31 PM

As long as you have a good communication going and extensive patience and understanding, it'll work. Lalo pa ngayon that you can easily communicate ng real time with the use of the net.

I think one of the most na lang dapat tandaan is let your partner know where you'll be going and who you will be with. Para sa akin kasi, if he knows the company I'm gonna be with, he'd know for himself that I'll be safe and maybe he can even get in touch with one of them pag hindi ako mareach. It also gives this sense of security, na kahit magkalayo ka alam nya nangyayari sayo.

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Posted 15 November 2017 - 02:10 AM

Always make sure that your phone has full battery and theres a strong wifi connection. But more important is for you to have that connection that binds you and the enthusiasm and willingness to talk anytime of day even if it messes up your sleeping pattern. Add facetime , playtime,SOT and SOP and you can hurdle the space time and distance between you. With hi tech phone features now you can see him/ her play. Pwede nyo pa palakihin yung maliit .......

Na screen and font. :) Enjoy LDR

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Posted Today, 06:17 AM

For me, it's TLC & Love

Trust - Wag masyadong seloso/selosa. Hindi lahat ng hinala ay tama. Have faith in your partner
Loyalty - Self explanatory. Wag ka nang lumandi kung may syota na. 
Communication - Importante rin syempre yung palagi kayong nagkakausap. Di mo na nga makasama, di mo pa makausap. Nagrelasyon pa kayo  :D 


Love - Given na to


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Posted Today, 07:52 PM

Trust and Time


Trust your partner. Never ever forget to find time even in your most busy schedule to let your partner know that he/she's remembered or missed.

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